Any anxious babies around here?

[KirinLemon]

I'm having a hard time getting my dada's attention and when I go baibai for him. He go baibai too. So I ended up just leaving his message seen. I did want attention but.. I don't really know what to do...

[Little kaiya]

Sounds like it may be time to have an adult to adult conversation outside of the DDlg dynamic. If one partner or the other are not receiving what they need from the relationship then it's a good sign that there may be a need for an adult discussion.

[Alaskan Daddy]

I agree that there needs to be an adult conversation about what you and your daddy want and desire from each other. If your daddy cannot satisfy your needs after the conversation you may need to think if he is the right person for you. There is nothing wrong admitting that your daddy is nit the right person for you. Remember your feelings matter too. Please also remember not to play head games with your daddy. Be mature in your approach with him.

I hope my words help a little bit

good luck

[AussieMelbourneDaddy]

Sounds like it may be time to have an adult to adult conversation outside of the DDlg dynamic. If one partner or the other are not receiving what they need from the relationship then it's a good sign that there may be a need for an adult discussion.

Communication is such an important part of any relationship.

 

Feeling safe and comfy to talk openly about what you need/want from your daddy is essential to ensure happiness and understanding. If the connections of safe/comfy/openness aren’t strong then perhaps you need to think about whether the relationship is heading in the direction you want/need.

 

Open, safety, honest communication is important in any relationship, but even more so when caregiving forms a huge part of it.

 

Maybe a big girl conversation is needed to identify what you need from your caregiver and hopefully find a way to make things better for you both.

 

I hope this helps.

 

AMD

Edited August 9, 2021 by AussieMelbourneDaddy