Daycare for littles/middles

[Barney048]

Since my life has finally stabilized, yet I do not want a relationship atm I thought of starting sort of Daycare for littles/middles as a way to satisfy my caregiver side as well as help provide some structure and care for those unable to find a caregiver for the time being. 2 birds 1 stone.

 

So here's what I had in mind. The daycare is meant for littles/middles with a caregiver and those without one. If you are in an existing dynamic and your partner leads a busy everyday life, he can come discuss "droping you off" in my daycare. I would establish with him/her what it is that he/she'd like and is comfortable with. So if you are a little with a partner, and are interested in this, you'd have to talk it over with your caregiver and have him/her reach out to me. If on the other hand you are a single little/middle, I'd have you first answer a questionnaire to see if you are fit for the daycare, or would just use it/me as a replacement caregiver to fill a void. I will not play the role of your caregiver , but just someone there to provide structure and guidance when needed. It will be platonic. If however you desire sexual aspects as well, you can bring it up. However be aware that it won't happen for a while. I first have to evaluate if you are capable of such things without fostering me as your caregiver.

 

The daycare would be very selective. No, I'm not picky nor do I discriminate. In fact both male and female littles/middles would be welcome to apply, even tho I am straight. The reason it'd be selective is because I don't want you to be just a number.  There would be a small number of openings because I can't provide propper guidance for like 15 people. So the selection would be mainly based on how well you are suited for such a system.

 

With this post I'm sort of conducting a survey to see if there's any interest for the daycare and hear opinions from other people in the community. If I see interest I'll get this project off the groung in early August.

 

I look forward to hearing all your thoughts on the matter

[DaddysMonkey]

Very thoughtful ! Hope you drink coffee if you’re gunna be running a daycare , best of luck to you and those that join ! All I can think about is the movie Daddy Daycare and it ends in beautiful chaos ! :3

[Barney048]

Very thoughtful ! Hope you drink coffee if you’re gunna be running a daycare , best of luck to you and those that join ! All I can think about is the movie Daddy Daycare and it ends in beautiful chaos ! :3

 

Ty for the encouragment. As I was writing the post I actually thought "What was the name of that movie where Eddie Murpy started a daycare again" haha

[Guest nana <3]

Since my life has finally stabilized, yet I do not want a relationship atm I thought of starting sort of Daycare for littles/middles as a way to satisfy my caregiver side as well as help provide some structure and care for those unable to find a caregiver for the time being. 2 birds 1 stone.

 

So here's what I had in mind. The daycare is meant for littles/middles with a caregiver and those without one. If you are in an existing dynamic and your partner leads a busy everyday life, he can come discuss "droping you off" in my daycare. I would establish with him/her what it is that he/she'd like and is comfortable with. So if you are a little with a partner, and are interested in this, you'd have to talk it over with your caregiver and have him/her reach out to me. If on the other hand you are a single little/middle, I'd have you first answer a questionnaire to see if you are fit for the daycare, or would just use it/me as a replacement caregiver to fill a void. I will not play the role of your caregiver , but just someone there to provide structure and guidance when needed. It will be platonic. If however you desire sexual aspects as well, you can bring it up. However be aware that it won't happen for a while. I first have to evaluate if you are capable of such things without fostering me as your caregiver.

 

The daycare would be very selective. No, I'm not picky nor do I discriminate. In fact both male and female littles/middles would be welcome to apply, even tho I am straight. The reason it'd be selective is because I don't want you to be just a number.  There would be a small number of openings because I can't provide propper guidance for like 15 people. So the selection would be mainly based on how well you are suited for such a system.

 

With this post I'm sort of conducting a survey to see if there's any interest for the daycare and hear opinions from other people in the community. If I see interest I'll get this project off the groung in early August.

 

I look forward to hearing all your thoughts on the matter

Heyo!! >w<

I love the daycare idea and the name it sounds so fun!! and it's so nice of you to came up with this idea!!

I'm interested!! hehe >,< i think many other littles would be interested too hehe >w<

[Guest Account deleted]

This kind of initiative fills me with gratitude!!

 

It's a brilliant idea, I am sure you will be able to create a great group, and that it will be a very enriching/rewarding experience for you as well as for all the little ones/middles in your care.

 

Thank you for them!

 

Xxx - Bee

[Vampiress]

What a lovely idea! I hope that this works out great for you and all involved. If you can find a nice balance with everyone it sounds like it could be very fulfilling for you and helpful for your littles and middles in the daycare.

[GlitterMonster]

Hii! I think this is a great idea and I believe you have a good head on your shoulders to run it properly.

 

I was in a daycare before and as a little it was incredibly fulfilling and so much fun. I miss being a part of one and have been looking for some time. So I'll definitely be interested in applying and seeing if I'm good fit.

 

I would suggest thinking about if the littles in your care are going to be in a group chat to be able to interact or if the daycare is one-on-one but with multiple spots.

[DaddysMonkey]

Hii! I think this is a great idea and I believe you have a good head on your shoulders to run it properly.

I was in a daycare before and as a little it was incredibly fulfilling and so much fun. I miss being a part of one and have been looking for some time. So I'll definitely be interested in applying and seeing if I'm good fit.

I would suggest thinking about if the littles in your care are going to be in a group chat to be able to interact or if the daycare is one-on-one but with multiple spots.

The group chat idea is great , no matter where the group ends up. (Skype , discord ect) The idea that the littles could “play” together and possibly have group activities is really cute. And I personally think it would be more inclusive to have a group chat than one on one for whoever ends up in the daycare because although you state this is all platonic unless otherwise discussed, if it’s all one on one with you there is bound to be some hurt feelings or jealousy at some point. I think a group helps eliminate that issue. Awesome suggestion GlitterMonster !

[Barney048]

The group chat idea is great , no matter where the group ends up. (Skype , discord ect) The idea that the littles could “play” together and possibly have group activities is really cute. And I personally think it would be more inclusive to have a group chat than one on one for whoever ends up in the daycare because although you state this is all platonic unless otherwise discussed, if it’s all one on one with you there is bound to be some hurt feelings or jealousy at some point. I think a group helps eliminate that issue. Awesome suggestion GlitterMonster !

 

That's exactly why I wanted to do a daycare rather than just go out looking for a dynamic to soothe my caregiver side. I want a group dynamic, but like I said it will be selective because I also want to be able to address littles/middles on an individual level. My idea is to take out some time durring the weekends to plan activities in the daycare as a group and have individual "appointments" daily for each of them as well as individual tasks. These would become more personalized with time as I get to know each individual. That's what I told people who messaged me about it so far.

Having a group is also "convenient" for me, since I have a full time job as well as projects on the side. So I'd go about this in a very systematic way. 

 

So in early august I'd do something like a 1-2 week beta test of what I had in mind, and then get some feedback from the littles involved as well as their caregivers, assuming they are in a dynamic. After that , if the feedback was positive , I'd start it for real in september while taking into account all the suggestions and complaints from the beta test.

[Nymph]

bump for a wonderful idea! you sound very organized, I am sure you will do great~

[GlitterMonster]

That's exactly why I wanted to do a daycare rather than just go out looking for a dynamic to soothe my caregiver side. I want a group dynamic, but like I said it will be selective because I also want to be able to address littles/middles on an individual level. My idea is to take out some time durring the weekends to plan activities in the daycare as a group and have individual "appointments" daily for each of them as well as individual tasks. These would become more personalized with time as I get to know each individual. That's what I told people who messaged me about it so far.

Having a group is also "convenient" for me, since I have a full time job as well as projects on the side. So I'd go about this in a very systematic way.

 

So in early august I'd do something like a 1-2 week beta test of what I had in mind, and then get some feedback from the littles involved as well as their caregivers, assuming they are in a dynamic. After that , if the feedback was positive , I'd start it for real in september while taking into account all the suggestions and complaints from the beta test.

Honestly it sounds like this is really well thought out and you have put a lot of time and energy into it. I think the mix is perfect as it gives everyone that feeling of being special and will let the littles be attached platonically and hopefully avoid favorites. I think you should put your plan into action, see how it goes. You won't know unless you try and you can change it as it goes.

Edited July 20, 2021 by GlitterMonster

[Barney048]

Hello everyone. Just to give a lil update: The daycare did not get started due to my schedule suddenly filling up, as well as the expectations of most candidates being somewhat unreasonable. The majority expected the daycare to be preety much like a dynamic, or 80% of it. While I understand the desire for that, it would be neither healthy nor possible for me to achive half of what those candidates expected. Just catering to a couple of such littles would be impossible.

I still would like to eventually get the daycare of the ground, but I've realized it would not be possible with just me alone. So if there's any Doms that would be interesting in runing it together do contact me. There will be a long process of me deciding wether you are fit for it tho, afterall the well being and mental health of the daycare goers is at stake.

 

Anyway, that's all... A nice day to everyone and a kinky evening to you all 

[GlitterMonster]

I'm sorry to hear the daycare did not work out how you wanted

 

I think people need to understand this is not a dynamic, but somewhere to go when your current partner is busy, or your alone in little space. It's meant for small amounts of time, like having a little friend or an older siblings watching you for a moment.

 

I hope your new life adventure is going well, and that you find a couple of extra hands to help out.

Edited October 5, 2021 by GlitterMonster

[TwistedColors]

Sad the daycare couldn't be it would have been awesome possom

[ScarletBaby]

I love love love the idea of a daycare! I hope you can find the time, means, and possibly people to pull it off. Hopefully people will be able to realize what an amazing opportunity it could be. Too many of the DDLG books I read include daycares and it makes me long for the opportunity. I think of a daycare as a safe space to meet other Littles and be Little yourself. Hopefully you will get the chance to make that happen, though I have a feeling that it's no where near me, LOL! Either way, Little Daycare should really be a thing. Thank you for putting it out there and being someone who wants to do that.

[Guest bubudabu]

i hope other dom will come up and help~ i would like to join~

[Mischa]

I really really like this idea! I have a Daddy so I am not in need of this at this time but when I didn’t have one, more so one who is attentive to me, this would have been perfect. As a little it is hard for me to function properly without structure. Having someone who did that for me would have been amazing and so helpful! This is brilliant and if my Daddy ever felt he was too busy to tend to me fully I would definitely mention this to see what he said!

[PennyGoodfellow]

Has anything ever come of this? 

[Barney048]

Unfortunately no. If I start a daycare eventually I will post here and personally inform everyone who previously expressed interest.