Newly without a daddy

[hbear]

my (ex) daddy and I just recently ended things. I'm sad, but I kinda saw it coming.

I hadn't felt little in a week and he wasn't helping me at all with it. Is that selfish of me?

We were also skyping and he seemed very bored. When I asked him to " make me feel little" while we were skyping he said "idk how" and changed the subject. He didn't call me baby girl or any of the other pet names he normally does for 4 days in a row.

 

[Fortune Cookie]

I'm sorry to hear that, it's so confusing when people change their ways without really communicating a reason to you.

I had an LDR with a Daddy for 4 months we spoke everyday then just out of the blue about 4weeks ago we were chatting through text and he just never replied mid conversation and he hasn't been in touch since. 4 months may not be that long but it was really upsetting and confusing. I couldn't believe he could be so disrespectful.

 

I'm don't think you asking for your Daddy at to help is selfish that's kind of his role, if he didn't feel like he was up to it or if he was questioning things about your relationship then he should of discussed it with you rather then brushing it all off.

 

I hope you're doing ok, it's taken me a few weeks to feel somewhat ok but I'm working on being positive and I hope you feel ok too and remember that you deserve better. Xx

[princessmissa]

Aw I hope you're ok! I'm very sorry to hear about what happened. I'm a new little but I'm always here for you if you ever need someone to talk to

[Guest kyril]

I'm sorry that you had to experience that. It's good though, that you decided to end things, otherwise you would just end up being more hurt in that relationship. He couldn't give you the attention and affection you needed and started to neglect you. You weren't selfish at all for asking to be loved and cared for, don't think about that. The next step is the healing process, try keeping yourself busy with things you like as much you can, talk about it with other littles or friends, you will need the emotional support and a lot of positive engergy. I'm here too if you need a friend.

[Bambibaby]

I understand how you feel. My ex-daddy and I recently split but it came out of nowhere. He was my first daddy so it was hard. Healing can be exhausting, but it'll get easier and when you feel it ease up you'll be so proud of yourself! Never think that you're being selfish when talking about your needs. If you need a friend during this time we could always lean on each other. 

[Guest littlemissragamuffin]

:< I'm sorry *hugs* LDR are hard things to keep going. It's not easy to tell what people are thinking when your not around them very much.

 

I don't think it's selfish. If it's something you'd already shared and was giving help for, it wouldn't be selfish it'd be normal.