Little AND Middle?

[LOKittenTexas]

Hey everyone. I have found that I can go into little space (6) or middle space (15). Little Space tends to be less sexual, though explorations happen, and middle space is both emotional and much more sexual.

 

Does anyone else have more than 1 age? Or more than 1 space? Daddy has done very well with it. We've got names for both, he knows the personality in both... but I've never met anyone else like this.

[PapaGrayWolf]

If you can go into little space why would you not also be able to go into middle space?  Not everyone would want to go into both but if you want, why not?

[LOKittenTexas]

If you can go into little space why would you not also be able to go into middle space?  Not everyone would want to go into both but if you want, why not?

I definitely don't have problems going into both, I was just curious if others did it too. I've told a couple of friends I go into both and they hadn't ever heard anyone else talking about both. It would be interesting to hear someone else's experience with it.

[PapaGrayWolf]

I had a little who would go into various stages of either and there were benefits to that.

[Guest Leanne]

I do. I have littlespace which is around 6 also and middlespace is around 11. It's harder for me to get into littlespace where middlespace is easier to achieve. Littlespace is much more vulnerable.

[LOKittenTexas]

I haven't seen anything negative with having little and middle space available. Though there have been a couple of times where I've been in one and I can feel the other there. Like when I'm in Little space it's like I can feel my middle enjoying my little having fun. Saying that makes it sound a little like DID but I don't know how else to explain it. The 2 don't compete or interact, but it helps recharge the other when I'm in a space.

[LOKittenTexas]

I do. I have littlespace which is around 6 also and middlespace is around 11. It's harder for me to get into littlespace where middlespace is easier to achieve. Littlespace is much more vulnerable.

I agree with this completely. Vulnerable is exactly it. I can slide into middle space with something as simple as a Playlist.

[Peetz]

I do! I tend to exist as a middle, even though I am in my thirties. It is kind of just my personality. Little space is something for when I am feeling very vulnerable. The pacis and onesies do not come out in my relationships until I can trust a daddy with my life.

[LOKittenTexas]

I appreciate yalls input. I was starting to feel weird having both. Not in a bad way, just not common. You guys have helped.

[LOKittenTexas]

I do! I tend to exist as a middle, even though I am in my thirties. It is kind of just my personality. Little space is something for when I am feeling very vulnerable. The pacis and onesies do not come out in my relationships until I can trust a daddy with my life.

That trust is extremely important. I tend to bring up my middle earlier than my little for that reason. And because, even at 35, I still have a lot of my middle in my day to day that shows up lol

[Vampiress]

I identify with both, but tend towards more being a little than a middle. I'd say sometimes "big" me probably comes out more middle sometimes. Being more middle is easier with various people, but being little is much harder with people because it's a much more vulnerable and sensitive space.

[MissPattch]

I have both little and middle spaces. I find i slip more into my little space when my Daddy is around because i can just no think about anything and know theres a Big person close by, my middle space is usually where i'm at when i'm unsupervised and don't have to parent.  It took me a while to figure out my age range was quite fluid and i had the same kind of concerns as you in the beginning. But yeah, lots of people here have a range of spaces they go into <3

[LOKittenTexas]

I have both little and middle spaces. I find i slip more into my little space when my Daddy is around because i can just no think about anything and know theres a Big person close by, my middle space is usually where i'm at when i'm unsupervised and don't have to parent.  It took me a while to figure out my age range was quite fluid and i had the same kind of concerns as you in the beginning. But yeah, lots of people here have a range of spaces they go into <3

I find I'm often in middle space when I'm in my car alone. The music can put me there quickly. It also happens at night once kids are in bed and I'm in my element. Little Space is definitely more with Daddy. I tend to not get into Little Space alone. Fluid is a great way to describe it. ⁹