Hard to find mommies?

[Chocodoll]

Is it really hard to find mommies here? I’m a lesbian little girl and I’ve been seeing comments saying it’s hard to find mommies here. Are there other places I can also join to find a mommy?

 

If there are other Lesbian littles I’d love to know your experience and suggestions since I’m super new to this community and I really want a chance to explore myself with someone caring.

[Vampiress]

I think mommies are harder to find in general, and I also think they don't always advertise themselves as mommies. From what I've observed, the demand is far higher than the amount of mommies and many keep it to themselves because they get overwhelmed by so many littles desperate for a mommy. I would try ddlgfriends like you were already recommended. You could try kik groups or discord servers, but I don't know how successful you'll be with either of those.

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy and I know quite a few people that are also mommies. A lot of them have shared with us that they aren't fully out about being a mommy because of how often people view them as a role versus as a person first. Many of them have the same complaint/frustration in that people approach them just looking for a mommy to fill their needs instead of wanting to get to know them as a person.

 

Honestly, I don't think it's hard to find a partner who is also a mommy but just finding someone to fill a mommy role is probably much harder. There's a pretty important distinction here from our view.

[Chocodoll]

My Daddy and I know quite a few people that are also mommies. A lot of them have shared with us that they aren't fully out about being a mommy because of how often people view them as a role versus as a person first. Many of them have the same complaint/frustration in that people approach them just looking for a mommy to fill their needs instead of wanting to get to know them as a person.

 

Honestly, I don't think it's hard to find a partner who is also a mommy but just finding someone to fill a mommy role is probably much harder. There's a pretty important distinction here from our view.

I'm looking for a partner that is also a mommy. I'm kind of alright with just having a mommy but I'd like to have a partner that's understanding of my needs.

[Chocodoll]

I think mommies are harder to find in general, and I also think they don't always advertise themselves as mommies. From what I've observed, the demand is far higher than the amount of mommies and many keep it to themselves because they get overwhelmed by so many littles desperate for a mommy. I would try ddlgfriends like you were already recommended. You could try kik groups or discord servers, but I don't know how successful you'll be with either of those.

I've been looking for active discord groups but I forgot about kik. I'll give it a look! thank you!