Long Distance Maintenance?

[nappytgirl]

Hi everyone! So, a little background: my Mommy and I have been seeing each other every weekend for several months. Every Friday I was punished if there were any misbehaviours during the week, and every Sunday She gave me a maintenance spanking (fewer swats and less intense) to encourage me to behave during the following week/to corrrect little infractions that weren't worthy of a full-on punishment.

 

Recently, our schedules have changed indefinitely and we've been seeing each other every other weekend. We still continue to do both things on the weekend we do see each other, but we were wondering if there was a way to do some sort of maintenance during the weekend we don't meet in person, as we like what the weekly correction does for my behaviour. Spanking myself is not an option, as She would like to reserve that to do Herself (plus I wouldn't know how to really gauge the intensity in the same way.)

 

If you have any advice or suggestion, please let me know! Just remember that this is not meant to be a long distance punishment (which is much more common and there are already a ton of posts online about it) but the equivalent of a maintenance spanking. For reference, She usually punishes me with lines and corner time besides spankings, but any other suggestions are completely welcome!

 

Thanks a lot in advance and sorry for the long post!

 

Camila.

[moondust mochi]

hi there!

as another long distance little who needs a type of maintenance, i definitely empathize with this.

it absolutely isn't the same, but my Daddy and i use roleplay or even just some good old phone session. 

 

if pain is what you're craving, get on video and go over your week together, then use something like nipple clamps.

have her instruct you. 

have her watch.

i know you said that self-spanks aren't a thing in the cards, but i do want to mention that using a hard-backed hairbrush on your boobs

while your partner watches and instructs you when to hit, how to hit, etc. might be something to look into! 

nipple clamps, clothespins etc might also work here. 

 

i hope that helps! 

[nappytgirl]

[moondust mochi]

I’ll mention it to Her! The going over the week together sounds good, although the brush might be a bit too much for a non-punishment . Now I just need something to replace the kind of severity that a light spanking has, without it being pointless! It’s a tricky one

 

Thank you so much for your advice! Any other is welcome

 

have you thought about positioning? 

you could learn some positions together, like ways to kneel or even standing in a corner, and your partner could walk you through a series of postures on cam. 

that might be super restorative, and have that intensity! 

[nappytgirl]

 

have you thought about positioning? 

you could learn some positions together, like ways to kneel or even standing in a corner, and your partner could walk you through a series of postures on cam. 

that might be super restorative, and have that intensity! 

That doesn’t sound bad! Might be closer to what I need. We’re thinking maybe lines are the way to go, just fewer compared to the punishment lines. I’m still open to everyone’s suggestions!