help please!!!

[littlemadi77]

 

hiii! i’m a new little, but i’m having trouble telling my boyfriend. our relationship is already mildly ddlg, but it’s very mild, and we haven’t ever labeled it as ddlg, i’m not even sure my boyfriend knows what that is. But we do things like baby talk ( sowwy, otay, i wuv you, etc.) and he calls me baby, his baby, and baby girl. I call him daddy sometimes, but it’s only ever been during sexual talk, and he referred to himself as daddy but again it was in a sexual way, he said he “could be daddy if he needed to.” I act kinda little sometimes around him, like him holding my shoulders and asking me something and i’ll shyly look up and answer, but it’s nothing much. he also tends to take a caregiver roll by doing things like making sure i eat well, wear my seatbelt, etc. I really want to take it to the next level, but how can i incorporate ddlg things and actions without it being weird or without labeling it?

[Alaskan Daddy]

Hi

What do you think of bringing up  little things you like to do and ask your BF 'what do you think if I wanted to do 'what ever' with you'? Take baby steps and see what he thinks. It may take him a little while to completely understand what DDLG is. Some of the little things could be reading bed time stories or tucking you in. I hope this helps a little. 

[Good_girl]

So cute! That’s actually how me and my bf started! I said things like that, he would make me eat, stay on the phone with me till I feel asleep first and he made me a bedtime story, gave me a bedtime, rock me to sleep and so much more. I kinda just sat him down and said hey have you ever heard of ddlg and boom. I told him about it and how it’s gradual and no need to rush or feel pressured. I also brought up that he was a natural caregiver and how he helps me so much already. Make it slow and gradual. I think it will workout great considering how he already is with you! I hope it goes well!

[littlemadi77]

Alaskan Daddy and Good_Girl, thank you both!