Help me!!!

[littlemadi77]

hiii! i’m a new little, but i’m having trouble telling my boyfriend. our relationship is already mildly ddlg, but it’s very mild, and we haven’t ever labeled it as ddlg, i’m not even sure my boyfriend knows what that is. But we do things like baby talk ( sowwy, otay, i wuv you, etc.) and he calls me baby, his baby, and baby girl. I call him daddy sometimes, but it’s only ever been during sexual talk, and he referred to himself as daddy but again it was in a sexual way, he said he “could be daddy if he needed to.” I act kinda little sometimes around him, like him holding my shoulders and asking me something and i’ll shyly look up and answer, but it’s nothing much. I really want to take it to the next level, but how can i incorporate ddlg things and actions without it being weird or without labeling it?

[littlemadi77]

alsooo i didn’t add this but he also takes a caregiver roll at times and makes sure i eat well and wear my seatbeltttt, things like that:)

[Guest BigDaddyDominant]

Well for one discuss what DDLG means to you and how its already a part of your life ie tell him the examples you shared here.Explain what a caregiver is and how you feel like he already fits that role.Then you can explain the idea of what being a little is like for you.That should at least get the conversation started and hopefully you both can understand where you fit in your roles. Good luck to both of you because this is a amazing adventure your both about to undertake.