i feel really lost.

[littlegirlxoxo]

i just blocked my daddy because it was too toxic for me to handle. we hadnt even been talking for that much and didnt even go out or even meet irl yet, but we both instantly fell in love w eachother. we texted all the time, well when he wasnt busy and called even when taking naps, he was the first to really make me explore my little side and it was rlly comforting. however as much as i loved him and he said he loved me, he was hurting me too much. we both had agreed to not talk to other ppl but neither of us were ready for a relationship. he went out w this girl bc apparently he panicked and didnt know how to say no but broke up w her the next day for me and a few days later said they still talk but now shes like a sister to him. but then like a week later, he told me she asked him out again and he said yes, this time really wanting it. i got rlly numb bc of that and broke our pinky promise and i smoked. he got really mad at me but i explained and he said he understood but was still annoyed. he ghosted me for abt 4 days, then broke up w the girl and said he did it just to see what i would do and told me he couldnt call bc he was calling other girls, which made me rlly upset, i couldnt take him hurting me anymore.

 

this isnt the only thing that he did but most significant, all my friends told me hes not worth it so i finally blocked him. i already miss him reading me bedtime stories and its only been like 3 hrs  

 

i dont think he understood that everytime he did something shitty and we didnt talk for a few days even hrs, i wasnt just losing him as a friend or as a more than friend whatever i was to him but also as a little. everytime i was losing a piece of myself, and now that i blocked him and im missing my daddy i feel like ive lost all of me.

 

sorry for the long rant but idk what to do

[Guest Hero_Yuri]

So, personally I would take some time for myself to recover after all of that. If you do ever get the chance to meet someone great that respects you, right away set boundaries and don't let anyone ever again do the bad things he did to you; if they try then just poof right out of there. Also spending some time with your friends right now would help a lot. Do your best to recover, do what you gotta do to get better, and idk I hope what I have said is of some help to you.

Wishing you the best and I hope your day is going great.

[Wittle_moon_babygirl]

I would take time to recover. But I also wouldnt let that stop me from going out and finding the perfect partner(s). Don't let a bad situation stop you from being yourself. He is NOT a good daddy, in my eyes, he doesn't deserve the title daddy cause even though y'all wernt together romantically. Y'all where in a dynamic and he cheated on you. Plan and simple. If you need a friend please don't hesitate to add me and message me

[littlegirlxoxo]

So, personally I would take some time for myself to recover after all of that. If you do ever get the chance to meet someone great that respects you, right away set boundaries and don't let anyone ever again do the bad things he did to you; if they try then just poof right out of there. Also spending some time with your friends right now would help a lot. Do your best to recover, do what you gotta do to get better, and idk I hope what I have said is of some help to you.

Wishing you the best and I hope your day is going great.

thank you! <33

[littlegirlxoxo]

I would take time to recover. But I also wouldnt let that stop me from going out and finding the perfect partner(s). Don't let a bad situation stop you from being yourself. He is NOT a good daddy, in my eyes, he doesn't deserve the title daddy cause even though y'all wernt together romantically. Y'all where in a dynamic and he cheated on you. Plan and simple. If you need a friend please don't hesitate to add me and message me

thank you sm <3

[Vampiress]

Wow he sounds like a trainwreck. I'm glad you moved on, because that would've just eaten away at you even more over time the longer he acted that way. He clearly had zero respect for you and your feelings. He's selfish and beyond immature, and clearly shouldn't be taking on the responsibility of being a Daddy when he only cares about himself. Sounds like he was doing this to you and the other girl, and who knows who else. Clearly he has some insecurity issues to need the attention of so many girls. Just know that you deserve way better than that, and he isn't worth the few nice things he did for you. You'll eventually find the right partner when you're ready. Just remind yourself if this ever happens again that you are worth being treated with dignity and respect and move on. No point in wasting time on people like that.

[littlegirlxoxo]

Wow he sounds like a trainwreck. I'm glad you moved on, because that would've just eaten away at you even more over time the longer he acted that way. He clearly had zero respect for you and your feelings. He's selfish and beyond immature, and clearly shouldn't be taking on the responsibility of being a Daddy when he only cares about himself. Sounds like he was doing this to you and the other girl, and who knows who else. Clearly he has some insecurity issues to need the attention of so many girls. Just know that you deserve way better than that, and he isn't worth the few nice things he did for you. You'll eventually find the right partner when you're ready. Just remind yourself if this ever happens again that you are worth being treated with dignity and respect and move on. No point in wasting time on people like that.

thank you, i needed to hear this!

[SmolAetherr]

whoa that person really didnt have any respect or consideration huh? 

 

im sorry you had such an awful experience it is a shame people do that and dont understand/care about the effect it has but its over now and you are free to heal!

 

feeling lost is ok, just remember you are worth more than that, this person showed by their actions and indecision that you were not their priority and its going to take time to recover self esteem from that but you will, we believe in you!

Edited June 26, 2021 by Aetherr

[PapaGrayWolf]

thank you, i needed to hear this!

I would like to add to what Vampiress said but I can't.  She said it all and she said it well. 

[Guest Aquaman]

That’s the dumbest reason, dating someone cause he panicked and didn’t know how to say no? Is he 12 lol, then he says he dated the girl to “see what you would do”. Just drop him. You both set boundaries that you both agreed on and he broke them just for the sake of breaking them. You’re better than that ,you deserve someone better, and you will find someone infinitely better than him.

[littlegirlxoxo]

whoa that person really didnt have any respect or consideration huh? 

 

im sorry you had such an awful experience it is a shame people do that and dont understand/care about the effect it has but its over now and you are free to heal!

 

feeling lost is ok, just remember you are worth more than that, this person showed by their actions and indecision that you were not their priority and its going to take time to recover self esteem from that but you will, we believe in you!

thank you!!!

[littlegirlxoxo]

That’s the dumbest reason, dating someone cause he panicked and didn’t know how to say no? Is he 12 lol, then he says he dated the girl to “see what you would do”. Just drop him. You both set boundaries that you both agreed on and he broke them just for the sake of breaking them. You’re better than that ,you deserve someone better, and you will find someone infinitely better than him.

yeah exactly i thought i was meant to be the childish one not him 

[PapaGrayWolf]

yeah exactly i thought i was meant to be the childish one not him 

There is a difference between childish and childlike.  We, the responders to your thread seem to be in agreement as to which your ex is.