Daddys getting younger or is it just me?

[Braidedbrat209]

I have recently become very popular amongst men in their early to mid-20s. Seems like it's getting harder to find someone that I consider age appropriate anyone else experiencing this? D a d d ys I want to hear from you too

[baby_k]

I have noticed the same trend in vanilla world too: I get approached by way younger men than what I am. And it is not just because I would look so youthful

 

I guess it is seen as more okay nowadays? Cougar and MILF-terms have probably helped.

 

No facts here but: maybe the younger ones have not yet settled down like people in their 30's, and they may be more active which makes it seem like there is no "age appropriate" men as most messages come from the younger ones.

[Kittykat83]

When I first joined on here I did get a fair few chats from some young uns, but it was tricky finding those who were more age appropriate. My preference is older men, but I found they werent as prevalent or my age was not what they were looking for. Hang in there, you will find someone, there are some older daddies out there who do like older littles.

[PapaGrayWolf]

The unfortunate thing about DDlg is that it has become somewhat of a fad over time.  I think that's one reason why you will find younger Daddies.  Younger guys (I hesitate to call them men) tend to be more susceptible to going along with the crowd, being part of a fad. 

 

But then that may just be an old fart being judgmental of the younger generation, a trend since the time of Aristotle. 

[DaddySadist_40]

I agree with PapaGrayWolf....

With the prevalence of TikTok and Instagram and similar programs, a lot of this life has become a fad that the younger generation leans towards because they we it as cool and hip....(gods I can't stand trendy things....lol)

I didn't discover DDlg until I was 33, though I've been in BDSM for some time in one way or another.

Mind, I also think part of it is the older a person is they are typically seen as more experienced and the youngster crowd today seems a lot less likely to complain when told what they're doing wrong sexually, as it seems to me anyway at 40. They're seeming more likely to seek out an experienced person so they know if they're doing it right or not.

My two cents anywho....

[Guest She-Calls-Me-Papa]

Maybe but I know quite a lot of older daddies. I am 32 and my sub/middle is 29. The same thing could be said about littles. I notice a lot of young girls on here. 18-25 is young to me. Like the older gentleman said before me it’s become somewhat of a fad with this generation. Don’t get discouraged though there are plenty of middle aged men and women into ddlg. Good luck dear.

[Guest rainbowglo]

Age is just a measurement of time... It's what one does with that time and what they've learned within it that gives their personal age a scale to base upon. Meaning, no one of any age is the same as anyone else of that age. I just get a bit bothered when someone refers to me as "an older woman"... as a little... Just... No! :-p

[Guest]

The interesting thing, I was always interested in older men, all through my life I would seek them. This was up till I met my current boyfriend/daddy/dominant who is actually 5 years my junior... he has taught me so much, made me feel so cherished and loved, more so than any man I have been with. 
As rainbowglo said, age is just a measurement of time.

[princess cotton grass]

this is because BDSM is not what it used to be !

historically, bdsm has been a highly gatekept community and any dom would have been 'trained' by a mentor: an older and very experienced member of the community. as well as this, many future doms started as subs and so would have a greater understanding of how to treat a sub. but with the internet bdsm has become less taboo and anybody can call themselves a dom, even with no experience. this is why so many 20 yr olds are doms. 

this is actually a pretty controversial topic and there are arguments on both sides as to whether bdsm should be gatekept, taboo and underground. all i will say is stay safe! inexperienced doms who don't understand safety can be dangerous and there have been too many examples of bdsm being misused to take advantage of subs.
 

[Guest She-Calls-Me-Papa]

Yes this is true cotton. I had a mentor myself. Learning the ropes so to speak. Haha

[Little kaiya]

Personally my Daddy is younger but to be honest age isn't really that important a factor for me. Maturity is FAR more important because you can have younger or older Daddys whose behaviour is very immature.

 

I didn't go looking for a Daddy with an age in mind, rather I found someone I love and went from there. I think limiting one's pool of potential partners based on something like age misses an opportunity to find the right person based on a characteristic that honestly is just a number.

[HauteCouture]

I mean its more accessible for people who do not have the right friends or don’t know where to start like myself. That is how I kinda got into it. Otherwise I might have never discovered this side of me. We all have to start out somewhere. So it has positive sides to it doesn’t it. Besides, hypes die out eventually.

[moondust mochi]

i absolutely understand the perspective this post is coming from!

 

as a late life lesbian, i spent a lot of my formative years dating older, male daddies from the "old world" bdsm community.

i can pretty confidently say that while that world isn't an entirely bad one, i'm glad we've grown a bit as a whole! 

 

my current daddy is younger than i am, but that doesn't bother me at all.

we learn together, and honestly? 

i prefer it.