Lost Little

[Shay929]

My daddy died a few years ago. I was with him from when we were teenagers. I have been trying to be on my own but I recently realized I can't. I don't know how to find a new daddy but I need one. I am not making good choices and my health has really suffered. Can anyone tell me the safest way to find a new daddy? I just need a little help. I point in the right right direction. Please!!

[Lollipox]

That's devastating, I'm sorry to hear that. And I think a lot of us understand how painful that must be.

 

I think you kinda need to work from the beginning again. Y'know? Which can be difficult when you've been with someone for so long and out of the dating/seeking game (so to speak). Browsing through the Personals for Daddies who share similar interests or world views. And getting to know them as a person first and foremost, seeing if you mesh well with anyone and whether you both see it going anywhere. I don't think there's such a thing as an instant-Daddy.

 

I'm not very experienced in the Daddy hunting department. I don't really know the protocol first hand. I'm sorry.

 

I do think it might be worthwhile to look for some Little friends, too maybe. Friends that are supportive and listen, and can help you vet potential Daddies. And be there for you if it doesn't work out. And friends who encourage you to take care of yourself better.

 

Some might argue that you need to be able to take care of yourself first before you go looking for a Daddy, but that's not always the case. Sometimes in the case of tragic events that's an unreasonable expectation. Daddies are wonderful beings and sometimes they are exactly what makes you want to try a bit harder and turn things around. So you do what you think is genuinely best for you, if you feel emotionally ready to get back out there.

They're not going to be able to magically fix everything, but sometimes we just need that special someone to make us feel like we can do it and get through it.

 

Wishing you the best of luck. I hope that others will give you better advice or suggestions.

[ALittleCurious]

I'm so sorry to hear this. ❤️ Let me know if you need support.

[ncdadddom]

good morning,

Sorry to hear that you lost your Daddy.  You can post on this site that you are looking for a daddy. You can Join FETLIFE and post there as well. As for being safe. You need to chat with whomever responds to you since there are fake daddies out there and only looking for sex. 

[MasterPhotog]

First, you MUST take care of your health. 

Next, talk and meet people without rushing into a relationship.

Please keep in mind that building a meaningful and lasting relationship takes time. Stay away from people who rush you for sex or for a relationship. 
 

Hope it helps, feel free to DM me if you like. 

 

Best wishes. 

[Nymph]

I'm sorry to hear about your daddy *hugs*

 

If you feel you can't be on your own, that is not good news, consider checking out this link: https://www.healthline.com/health/emotional-dependency unless you are at a point in life/health where you need assistance, then that is just what you need, assistance... I am sure you know a daddy is more than that.

 

However if what you feel is that you don't WANT to be alone, then you don't have to be. You still have to be your own person, take care of yourself and even as a little take care of your daddy when he needs your support. This lifestyle is not all that different from traditional gender roles (reversed in some cases but you get the idea) giving someone in a way the control, but in the end you are supporting each other and tending to each other needs.

 

You can probably find a daddy in vanilla dating sites, if you are into more kinky/fetish stuff, then fetlife might be the way to go, you can also post here on the personals section, talk about who you are and maybe mention a couple of things you are not willing to try, so people have an idea of your preferences and limits.

 

Since you were with your daddy for so long I urge you to not just look based on him, no laundry list of your dream daddy! Leave the door open to new options, you might be pleasantly surprised.