Being too bratty

[Guest Kitten baby girl]

Hey, so Uhmm this is my first post here, not sure if it’s the right place or not so please bear with me.

I’m kind of a brat. Not too much but I have a bratty streak. The problem is, I’m always afraid to be a brat because I think I might cross a line. Even when my CG/ Daddy promises I haven’t crossed the line, whenever I let my brattiness out, I always go into a very bad headspace after, constantly worrying if I took it too far or something.

Does anyone have any advice on how to get over that? I’ve tried not being a brag but it always pops up randomly.

Thanks for reading.

[DaddyDomination]

Communication is the Key. I try not to be overly serious so if a line is crossed there's no doubt, or questions. I will flat tell My sub / little to tone it down. Most times they don't want to bring out My BDSM Master side as it is. In D/s DDlg especially there needs to be the trust both ways as well as communication. If your Daddy tells you that you're not crossing the line, they that should be it. I expect Mine to inform Me of any doubts or question they have. There's Daddy time especially for things that need to be sorted out. Business, then fun time it My way. 

[Guest Kitten baby girl]

Thank you so much for the advice!

[DatDaddy]

Since I don't know the situation personally I can't give the best advice but I can say if you took things too far you'd know. I'm guessing since there's no mention of signs that you took it too far then it's most likely just in your head, and you haven't taken anything too far in that regards. 

 

Most humans have signs if their patience is being tested. Facial expressions, a lack of enthusiasm for prolonged periods, or a long breath followed by a sigh. If you haven't experienced any of those signs while being a brat then I can guarantee you are in the clear. Worst case scenario though just ask him if you've been being too bratty if you are worried. Communication is the key to the strongest relationships. 

[Vampiress]

I think it's normal to have such doubts. Growing up we are taught how to behave by our parents and other adults in our lives, and as adults we're expected to know better and not misbehave. Being a brat goes against what the average person will probably expect out of you, so it can feel like you're going out of your comfort zone to be a brat with someone even if they give their permission. It also shows that you care, that even though you want to have your fun you're worried about upsetting your partner or taking your fun too far. I think those of us with insecurities can also be prone to having some degree of paranoia about seeming like we're "too much" for other people. In this case you'll just have to trust your partner when they tell you that what you've done so far is okay. It'll take some time to adjust but don't let your fears hold you back.

[Guest Kitten baby girl]

Thank you guys so much!

[chobits]

Think about why you brat- For me, I brat when I want attention, discipline, and structure. Hideki fully understands this because I've communicated it, but since we both know why I brat, it's easy to ask for what I want directly if the time isn't right for me to do so

 

Additionally, bratting can be fun for both parties! Hideki finds it adorable because it's a subtle beg for his time and attention, and I find it a good way to relieve all those tangled-up frustrating emotions.