How to be a Daddy Dom?

[ChibiKiwi]

I am new to both the community in general, and this site in particular. I'm a male and I really want to be a Daddy Dom but I don't know how....I don't know what to say and act like a Daddy. If there's a list of things Daddy doms should say like a script or something please post it down below.

 

I would appreciate some help!

[mxiio]

Uhm.. How would you act, if you were just being yourself and not staring in a movie?

[Princess-P]

There is no script. Being a Daddy or a little is something you just are. Maybe you should take the time to read the forum posts and see if you can relate to any of it. If not you may just be looking for a role play scene and not actually becoming part of the community. You can't fake being a Daddy you just are or you aren't.

[Guest Mr TwitchPool]

I suppose for me being a daddy is just in my nature, no script at all.

 

Its not something you can just role play with, its a lifestyle and part of that person.

[Guest Buttons]

I would say that you should first do some research to educate yourself! For example, take a look through all of the threads on this forum. They are full of advice, opinions, and support. There is no 'right way' or 'perfect way' to be a Daddy Dom -- each person is different, and each relationship is different. 

 

Focus on educating yourself. Make use of the forum's threads, and maybe talk to some other of the members -- a great way to make friends is involving yourself in various discussion threads or joining into the chatroom!  

[caringdaddy]

Hey Chibi

 

I think being a Daddy comes naturally it within your nature, as you say that you are new you do not have much knowlege about BDSM Lifestyle, I would recommed reading through the threads here and watching DDLG videos. I can recommend a good book that helped me out alot is S&M 101 by Jay Wiseman, which teaches very useful knowlege to have to make you a good Dom, as a Dom you should always want to seek knowledge and want to make yourself a better dom so that you can better for your submissive in guiding her and making her feel safe in her submission . but natural she has to trust you and know you will never go past her limits or make her do something that she does not naturally want to do is fundamentally the most important part of a D/S relationship.  

 

Some very good traits naturally to have in your nature, Caring, patient, protective, value trust, taking lead and making decision that may not always be best in your interest.

 

you will observe the relationship and would set goals and rewards and punishments where it is seen to help your submissive grow as a submissive and give her structure that she wants. Do NOT just set rules for the sake of showing your dominance as its misguided as your looking out for her best interests. 

 

you need to get to know someone first to see if your compatible in likes or interests and that there is a physical attraction there, before entering into a D/S relationship.