Are people less active in the personals now that COVID is ending?

[little1grl]

I'm getting a lot less responses to my personals. I changed my ad back to the way it used to be when I was getting maybe 5 responses when I'd bump my topic. Now I usually get zero responses... and occasionally I'll get one or two here or there.

 

I wonder if people are people are on here less because COVID is ending? (And if so where are they finding people?) And if not is it that people didn't like my old version of my ad and just remember it? Which doesn't make sense sense. But maybe if there are a limited number of people on here?

 

I'm starting to lose hope that I'll ever find a Daddy. The quality of people on here far far far exeeds those I've met on fetlife. I've met mostly predators or horny men who want hookups on fetlife, and very few Daddys responding at all even when I say looking for a Daddy.

 

I am wondering if I should just give up looking for a Daddy and just try vanilla again. I was just not happy at all in vanilla relationships. But few people respond to my personals. I know that guys get 0-1 responses to personals on average but as a girl I always used to get more. Am I too old?

[Dopamine247]

I'm getting a lot less responses to my personals. I changed my ad back to the way it used to be when I was getting maybe 5 responses when I'd bump my topic. Now I usually get zero responses... and occasionally I'll get one or two here or there.

I wonder if people are people are on here less because COVID is ending? (And if so where are they finding people?) And if not is it that people didn't like my old version of my ad and just remember it? Which doesn't make sense sense. But maybe if there are a limited number of people on here?

I'm starting to lose hope that I'll ever find a Daddy. The quality of people on here far far far exeeds those I've met on fetlife. I've met mostly predators or horny men who want hookups on fetlife, and very few Daddys responding at all even when I say looking for a Daddy.

I am wondering if I should just give up looking for a Daddy and just try vanilla again. I was just not happy at all in vanilla relationships. But few people respond to my personals. I know that guys get 0-1 responses to personals on average but as a girl I always used to get more. Am I too old?

That’s exactly how I’ve been feeling lately! I’ve been posting here and there and even posted in Personals and bump it all the time but I seem to only get views and not that many responses at all. I know patience is key obviously but it’s just so bleh. I always have that feeling that I’ll never find a Daddy, and I really don’t want a vanilla relationship bc I know it won’t make me fully happy. But I’m still gonna try my best to be patient with things. A lot of people on here are really sweet and caring and I really wish you the best in your search and you find the Daddy just right for you! ☺️ Eventually you’ll find that someone. Good luck on everything!! Edited May 28, 2021 by Dopamine247

[SmolAetherr]

ill add some funny stuff here and quote that meme

 

Wait, you get responses? lol

 

on to the serious stuff

 

how often do you bump your post and feel free to call me dumb but you seem to measure the success of you personal based on the quantity of replies not the quality!

 

for me i've been bumping for 2 months now and not a single reply and minimal views but it doesn't bother me i dont personally care if 10 people read my personal or 100 a day what i care about is if the person who i want to get to know and wants to get to know me has the chance to see my personal and likes the frankly obscene amount of information i put in it about me lol

[ThatOneGuyTho]

Well first off, don't ever loose hope! Your person will come, it just might take longer than we'd all like to find that special someone. I don't think it really has anything to do with covid, people kinda seem to come and go. I read your ad and didn't see anything bad at all!! But it does mention you're looking for someone within a days driving distance, which might be limiting your pool greatly? Idk, I've never tried to find a little, but when I do look around sometimes I notice almost no one is in my area (Michigan, it's a hell state XD) I think finding someone local just makes it a bit harder.. Not impossible mind you!!

 

If ya can't get any traction, maybe try opening up the distance a bit? Dunno! Just some thoughts form a nerd, hang in there ok? =)

[Vampiress]

I suppose it could be attributed to many things. The weather is getting nicer and people might be getting out more. Also more people are getting vaccinated and more free to do things if they're comfortabe with doing so. For any who are younger it's getting to be exam time at universities and they're probably all in hardcore study mode right now. Activity on this site seems to come and go as well. Have you tried the site DDLG Friends? I'm not on it but I've looked at it and it seems more like a social media site where you might have an easier time finding someone. There's also a DD/lg community on Instagram, and I'm sure there's plenty of other sites.

[little1grl]

Well first off, don't ever loose hope! Your person will come, it just might take longer than we'd all like to find that special someone. I don't think it really has anything to do with covid, people kinda seem to come and go. I read your ad and didn't see anything bad at all!! But it does mention you're looking for someone within a days driving distance, which might be limiting your pool greatly? Idk, I've never tried to find a little, but when I do look around sometimes I notice almost no one is in my area (Michigan, it's a hell state XD) I think finding someone local just makes it a bit harder.. Not impossible mind you!!

 

If ya can't get any traction, maybe try opening up the distance a bit? Dunno! Just some thoughts form a nerd, hang in there ok? =)

I have tried leaving the "within a days driving distance" off my personals too but then I get people from Europe. Or across the country. Which is fine except I haven't met a single Daddy who is ever willing to move to me- they all expect me to move to them. I have met some really really great Daddys and as soon as they hear that I cannot move to them, it ends.