I'm lost

[Huuuu]

Recently, I lost my sub/lg, and I got into trouble. I am in pain, I miss my little girl. I don’t know if it’s right for me to feel this way.

[pastelkitty<3<3]

it is normal to be hurt after losing one ive been hurt when i lost my old daddy it takes time to get over it 

[Huuuu]

it is normal to be hurt after losing one ive been hurt when i lost my old daddy it takes time to get over it

Yeah, what you said makes sense, but the process is painful

Edited May 22, 2021 by Huuuu

[bbubbless]

Hi hi

 

It absolutely makes sense for you to feel this way and always know that your feelings are valid! I don’t know how long you were in that relationship for, but despite that, it hurts and it’s hard to get over the fact that you lost someone like that. Whatever may have happened, allow yourself to process it and embrace the emotions that come forward. As cheesy as it always sounds- allow yourself to evaluate everything that happened, take a step back and do you again! Take all the time that you need in this process!

 

Sending healing vibes your way and take care!

 

-Bubbles

[Huuuu]

Hi hi

 

It absolutely makes sense for you to feel this way and always know that your feelings are valid! I don’t know how long you were in that relationship for, but despite that, it hurts and it’s hard to get over the fact that you lost someone like that. Whatever may have happened, allow yourself to process it and embrace the emotions that come forward. As cheesy as it always sounds- allow yourself to evaluate everything that happened, take a step back and do you again! Take all the time that you need in this process!

 

Sending healing vibes your way and take care!

 

-Bubbles

Thank you. I can understand what you mean. Maybe it was because it came so suddenly that I couldn't accept it at the moment. I'm a bit self-denying now, I always feel that I didn't do well

[ktownDaddy]

We are complex - we are kind, there is a long lost when we are left behind. You can wander as a nomad not know who you are or what you need but you survive. You accept the feeling of numbness as life as it it should be. Feeling complete but deep inside, the place were you keep your secrets knowing that you are not. Though to open that door, to embrace that loneliness would be to much to bear. Day after day, week after week, month after month you trudge along.

 

Then one day out of nowhere you meet someone. A someone who turns your life upside down. A someone who changes the way you see the world and more so how you see yourself.

 

You think differently, breathe differently, act differently and all of a sudden feel you life has purpose. You feel comfortable in your own skin and complete. You feel that all those gaps have been filled by something beautiful. That the shell of your being is now alive and complete. That finally it makes sense - your purpose and reason for being. That you have finally found happiness in the form of a beautiful dynamic and your world of chaos has found peace. Your emptiness and loneliness has subsided. Life and you are good.

 

Then that someone goes away. You look at the reality of going back to who you were. To the empty shell that didn’t live but only survived. You feel like the breath has been knocked out of you. That the happiness has been strangled out of your soul and that the darkness of disparaging emptiness is banging at your door.

 

The best thing about this dynamic is what is gives you. All the wonderful things and ways it compliments your life and how if fulfills you. The worst thing about this dynamic, is coping with that when it’s gone.

 

Enjoy the moment when you have it, enjoy every breath and second, enjoy ever smile and touch for nothing lasts forever and in an instant- it’s gone.

 

Known.

[Huuuu]

We are complex - we are kind, there is a long lost when we are left behind. You can wander as a nomad not know who you are or what you need but you survive. You accept the feeling of numbness as life as it it should be. Feeling complete but deep inside, the place were you keep your secrets knowing that you are not. Though to open that door, to embrace that loneliness would be to much to bear. Day after day, week after week, month after month you trudge along.

 

Then one day out of nowhere you meet someone. A someone who turns your life upside down. A someone who changes the way you see the world and more so how you see yourself.

 

You think differently, breathe differently, act differently and all of a sudden feel you life has purpose. You feel comfortable in your own skin and complete. You feel that all those gaps have been filled by something beautiful. That the shell of your being is now alive and complete. That finally it makes sense - your purpose and reason for being. That you have finally found happiness in the form of a beautiful dynamic and your world of chaos has found peace. Your emptiness and loneliness has subsided. Life and you are good.

 

Then that someone goes away. You look at the reality of going back to who you were. To the empty shell that didn’t live but only survived. You feel like the breath has been knocked out of you. That the happiness has been strangled out of your soul and that the darkness of disparaging emptiness is banging at your door.

 

The best thing about this dynamic is what is gives you. All the wonderful things and ways it compliments your life and how if fulfills you. The worst thing about this dynamic, is coping with that when it’s gone.

 

Enjoy the moment when you have it, enjoy every breath and second, enjoy ever smile and touch for nothing lasts forever and in an instant- it’s gone.

 

Known.

Yeah,Thank you, your words are helpful to me