How do I involve my Daddy in littlespace?

[feral]

Hi, so I'm mostly used to engaging in littlespace alone, slipping in and out for short periods of time doing activities that are comforting to me, I don't have a wide array of toys and I don't color, I mostly just vibe, watch a cartoon and cuddle my stuffie, littlespace for me is a bit dissociative.
My current Daddy has expressed interest in putting me in littlespace, he's new to the dynamic (however very interested)
He doesn't really have any experience and neither do I, so I'm mostly looking for suggestions as to what people actually do together for activities.

[Little kaiya]

Daddy and I do pretty much anything together. It could be playing games together, watching cartoons or movies, snuggling and cuddling, bath time, colouring, walks, picnics, you name it. It really is only limited by your imagination. Edited May 16, 2021 by Little kaiya

[hikaru-nii]

if you’re both okay with it, consider going to places like the park, the museum, the aquarium, etc! places outside where you can be little! cooking with a little is also fun, giving them simple tasks like stirring the pot or being verrrry careful with the knife (big supervision required!) discuss with him what he’s looking for in his big space! does he want to cuddle with you while you’re small? does he want to go out and play? determining what your big wants from your dynamic is a good way to gauge what kinds of activities that would be fun to do together!

[Thequeenslittle]

When Mommy and I first started delving into her being involved in my little space we started with small incorporations that focused around activities I already enjoyed doing by myself. For the example of watching movies, Mommy would turn on one of my favorite little movies for me and bring me my stuffed animals and blanket and then come cuddle with me. She also started making me little snacks to eat while watching movies. That allowed me to engage more in my headspace and for her to feel more a part of it herself. Once we got comfortable with that she would "little talk"( talking to me in a way that is at my little age level like baby talking) to me which helped further her involvement and my level of comfort.  Then we overtime developed new ways for us to engage in my little space together. This started with things like baking together, playing video games together and gardening together for us. Overtime our engagement in my little space is just part of everyday life. Sometimes she asks my stuffies questions and I talk for them. Other times she makes me little food randomly. Now it is as simple as her calling me little one and I drop into my headspace. It is something that is different for everyone and there is no wrong way to engage in your headspace. I just recommend not forcing it and letting it evolve naturally at its own pace. 

[AussieMelbourneDaddy]

Hi, so I'm mostly used to engaging in littlespace alone, slipping in and out for short periods of time doing activities that are comforting to me, I don't have a wide array of toys and I don't color, I mostly just vibe, watch a cartoon and cuddle my stuffie, littlespace for me is a bit dissociative.

My current Daddy has expressed interest in putting me in littlespace, he's new to the dynamic (however very interested)

He doesn't really have any experience and neither do I, so I'm mostly looking for suggestions as to what people actually do together for activities.

I subscribe to a KISS principle - Keep It Super Simple!

 

You said you like short bursts and watch cartoons cuddling your stuffie. Try adding an extra dimension to that and have your daddy cuddle you while you cuddle your stuffie and watch cartoons together. Small steps make for good building blocks and can slowly adapt more and more of your little space into your shared relationship.

 

Hope this helps.

 

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[PrincessVanellope]

To have my Daddy involved in littlespace we simply do things together. We cook dinner and bake dessert, we play games (like pretty pretty princess, candyland etc), we'll cuddle while watching a movie or cartoon. Sometimes we'll go on littledates where we'll go to an aquarium, zoo or museums. I hope this helps!