Am I a little if I don't regress a lot?

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[LittlePupRune]

So you don't need to be a regressor to be a little. They technically aren't the same thing but there can be a lot of overlap. I personally am not an age regressor, so my little space can be very independent. I've also not really figured out if I fit an age bracket because I don't find it important for me. I just know what I like and what works for me in that space. As for not being little frequently that's ok too! Some can only do it occaisionally because of life and others have found ways to integrate it into their daily life. It's all a matter of personal preference and ability.

[hikaru-nii]

I’ve never slapped an age onto my small self because I feel it as more of an emotion than a regression! something you'll hear occasionally is a regression age bing a “middle” rather than a “little”; someone who doesn’t necessarily identify with the little identifiers like sippy cups and binkies and babytalk. Identifying as a middle might be something for you!

[StrngButSweetDD]

You can definitely be a little without a specific age regression, or without regression at all.  There's not a hard and fast rule to this lifestyle, and there's not one true way to do it.

 

For some people ddlg is almost entirely a sexual kink.  For others it's very soft, even asexual.  Both ways are fine, it's your thing.

 

My two cents is that at 18 in many ways you are still very close to your actual childhood.  You're legally an adult, but you still hold onto many aspects of your younger years and things you like from them.  Even with no interest in ddlg that's common for younger girls.  So don't worry about it, just do what makes you and he feel good together, what makes you feel precious and special and loved.  That will change as you two find your thing.

 

I often ask my little "How old are you little girl?".  The very asking of the question pushes her straight into littlespace, which is usually why I ask it!  But many times she doesn't have an exact age to answer, it's just a feeling.  If I push an age on her she can overthink it and get wrapped around a number, which defeats the purpose.  So I just ask, or tell, and let her be little, cause it's good for her.

 

You're doing fine, and you sound like a lovely little, so just have fun k!

[Novicestitcher]

I wonder myself.  I identify with littles and sometimes regressers.  when i am in "little" space i feel like paci's, cuddles, and cribs.  however I dont have a daddy.  I also live with a lot of family, and share my bedroom.  although my younger sister is understanding and feels like i should be myself, she does not want any details and my older sister who i share my room with is mentaly unstable.  I don't have any place to be little and I can't seem to find any daddy's near me.  Don't really know how to find them.  Anyway, I wonder if I am really little because I am not willing to do so in front of my family.  I don't want the questions and the mocking.  does that make me bad

[LittlePupRune]

I wonder myself.  I identify with littles and sometimes regressers.  when i am in "little" space i feel like paci's, cuddles, and cribs.  however I dont have a daddy.  I also live with a lot of family, and share my bedroom.  although my younger sister is understanding and feels like i should be myself, she does not want any details and my older sister who i share my room with is mentaly unstable.  I don't have any place to be little and I can't seem to find any daddy's near me.  Don't really know how to find them.  Anyway, I wonder if I am really little because I am not willing to do so in front of my family.  I don't want the questions and the mocking.  does that make me bad

 

It doesn't make you bad at all. I do not share this side with my bio family as I do not believe they need to know not do they consent to it. My partner and my close friends know but thats it. It's not something I like being public about, it feels too personal and private to do that.