Regression trouble

[BabyButtercup]

Lately i'm not sure if my partner is interested in being my caregiver. I don't think they see into as much as I do when I regress I like to color and watch kid shows, they see it as me just calling them daddy. I'm scared to bring it up and its been keeping me from regressing. Any advice? 

[SmolAetherr]

yeah, be brave and bring it up, nobody here has any idea what is going on in your partner's head and therefore we would only be guessing.

 

advice for how to bring it up would be, try to be non accusatory, ask them why the arent doing x or y or maybe ask them what ddlg means to them and if you two are on the same page with it

 

gl op

Edited May 4, 2021 by Aetherr

[Guest rainbowglo]

Hmmm... I think I would ask to sit down with him and have a very frank but respectful discussion about it. You can say something along the lines of "Well, I know we have this dynamic... And we usually... Etc... But I was curious about your opinion of..." Utilize words that express the true emphasis of your intentions. If he is communicative and responsive to what you're bringing to the table and the emotions behind it all, you might just find what you're seeking! Many people don't delve into the feels of it all and just act out the part more like an RP... Neither is wrong, but we each want and need something rather unique! I wish you luck when you do approach him and joy along your journey wherever it leads!! Edited May 5, 2021 by rainbowglo

[Vampiress]

Unfortunately you can't read each other's minds so the only option you have is to bring it up and not shy away from it. Find out from him what his needs and desires are out of the relationship, what the dynamic means to him, etc. Get a real feel of what he is interested in, and then express to him your needs and desires. It's possible he wants something different, and it's possible that he feels lost and isn't sure what to do and needs your help to get him out of his shell as a Daddy. If you can't come to some kind of agreement between the two of you that will make you both happy then you might need to consider if you want to stay in the relationship and work with what you do have, or if it isn't enough and then you might consider moving on.

[FlowersAndAPrincess]

I would definitley bring it up, you both need to be on the same page in understanding even though i understand it might be scary