Do littles have to act little?

[Pennylou93]

I have long identified as a little. I would never say i am just one thing. There's a lot of facets to who I am and my kinky personas. That being said. I feel little fits me much better than others may. 

 

BUT 

 

I don't think I'm a typical little. I don't say "pwease" or do the *hugs* thing. It's just not me. Honestly part of it may be that I haven't trusted anyone to be that soft with yet.

 

Does that make me less of a little or am I alright? 

[Lollipox]

Uhhh I personally don’t do babytalk, and consider it to be somethin’ best left between friends or CG if I did. As RP isn’t really comfortable for a lot to of people to witness sans consent (I think?).

 

I don’t purposefully colour outside lines, or really love colouring (but still try to, for my own reasons unrelated to bein Little).

 

I only “*hugs*” with people I’m super close to.

 

So that’s my input as a fellow Little. ^^

 

There’s a difference between being a Little, Regressor or Roleplayer. But some can be any amalgamation of them, so I think that’s where definitions blur.

[BabyPineapple]

Just like with people of any other types, there are easily hundreds of different ways to "little". Not every little likes stuffed animals, or juice boxes, or babytalk, or emotes, or cartoons, or coloring, etc.

 

It definitely does not make you less of a little, it just makes you YOU.

[Guest Bunnibeb]

I don't think so! Little space is a very safe space you don't have to do anything that makes you generally uncomfortable. Personally baby talk makes me a bit uncomfortable (I dont mind anyone who does it) you just do you.    

[Vampiress]

The only person that can shape what your littlespace looks like is you. I don't personally baby talk, not into diapers, and even though I can be a very girly girl I like things that have long been thought traditionally as "boy" things. Little space isn't a pre-defined role that we try to fit into. Just do whatever you please and be the little you want to be. Doesn't matter what other people do as littles.

[Guest Account deleted]

I so agree with what has been said.. ♥ That doesn't make you less of a little, of course not! Do your thing. There is no right or wrong way to do it..!

We ALL have many different facets to who we are. You're not a typical Little? Well that's perfect because no one is!

[DaddysMonkey]

Hi. *waves*

 

I’m sorry you’re feeling like this. When I was younger I felt like this also.

 

I would say you’re perfectly alright , and nothing is wrong with you.

 

This kind of question always hurts my heart , cause whether you’re little or not you’re still just a human. Are you a good human ? Do you pick on others or stand up for them ? Do you try to make people feel better when they are down ? Do you smile at strangers , are you kind ? These are more important questions in my mind , being “soft” isn’t for everyone. I’m FAAAR FAR FAR away from “soft”.

 

Seeing stuff like this makes my heart hurt as I said , there’s this idea that’s perpetually sent out that to be little means to be soft spoken , angelic , cutesy , girly , baby talk and helpless in a sense.

I’m the opposite of that. I can be rambunctious , love to get dirty , hate baby talk (if people do it that’s fine I don’t care what you do but I prefer to use actual words) , I swear all the fuckin time and and by no means soft. I bark and I bite a hell of a lot worse than my bark.

 

There’s “types” of littles that people like to categorize themselves in , but as long as you’re happy , kind to others , and feel like you’re a little and love how you’re living... sounds like you’re doing pretty good to me. And sounds like you’re exactly what you are/wanna be. A little. Nobody is the same , especially when it comes to this lifestyle.

 

Baby talk and diapers make some people wanna gag , for some people it makes them feel so at peace and in tuned with their little self they feel like they’re on a cloud. Don’t let other people or categories define who you are. Be you and you’ll be alright.