littles during their period and using diapers

[softbrattypuppy]

~Littles during their period and using diapers~

I figured this was a thought I had in mind I've never see people talk about yet!

Littles with their period, no matter their gender and caregivers can share their experience if they want and give tips to each other and maybe give me an answer or chat about this topic!

So I know some of us like using diapers or seeing their little in diapers. Some use them to feel little and some others also use their utility. But What about when you're on your period? Do you still wear diapers? What if you're a little that uses them without using their functionality but leave a mess/stain inside? And what about littles who also do stuff inside their diapers while being on their period. How were your experiences so far?
Does it make you feel uncomfortable? Doesn't it remind you more of your physical age and kind of ruin your little space? Do the blood stains go through and stain the onesie if you wear it with a onesie?
What about you caregivers? If your duty is for example changing the diapers of your little, do you have to be extra careful or do it as double as often because of the stains? Does it make your little less valuable or does it make them uncomfortable or shy? What are your guys experiences about the smell, do you smell it?

I don't wear often diapers, I just own a pack of pull ups but they're super duper comfy! My problem is just that sometimes while on my period I feel even more the urge to get into little space, but end up so many times staining my onesies, which gets quite frustrating... Even if I wear panties under my onesies and a tampon or pads. And that get's me that frustrated because I love my onesies and am attached to them and get immediately adult thoughts once they're dirty like ''I have to clean them up'', or think too much about how to fix it asap, which ruins my little space. But due the hormonal change and stress I need to be more a little to relax and have some fun, so it's really difficult for me...

That's why I though about the diapers, they could be like xxl pads and like that my onesies stay clean, but maybe seeing the red colour inside would again ruin my little space because it would remind me that I'm an adult since littles don't bleed...

I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences about that topic! Maybe if I read some more about it I can make up a decision if I should try it during my period soo I can be in little space and use my onesies without staining them or better not!

Thanks for reading, greetings, puppy   
 

[Vampiress]

I don't partake in using diapers and such but I think a perspective change might help depending on what draws you to being a little. You said "it would remind me that I'm an adult since littles don't bleed." If you are an age regressor in the psychological sense this makes sense I guess, but if this is a kink and something you do because you relate to it in an adult kind of way then I think about this differently. Littles with female reproductive parts do bleed because they are adults in a kink. Children don't, but we are not children. An agere who regresses for psychological coping mechanisms I would say are the exception because that's a different scenario. As a little I never think of myself as a child because of the sexual nature and power exchange and BDSM related things. I'm not saying you're wrong, just offering my opinion and maybe giving you a different perspective on how to look at it. Maybe it'll help not pull you out of your littlespace.

[softbrattypuppy]

I don't partake in using diapers and such but I think a perspective change might help depending on what draws you to being a little. You said "it would remind me that I'm an adult since littles don't bleed." If you are an age regressor in the psychological sense this makes sense I guess, but if this is a kink and something you do because you relate to it in an adult kind of way then I think about this differently. Littles with female reproductive parts do bleed because they are adults in a kink. Children don't, but we are not children. An agere who regresses for psychological coping mechanisms I would say are the exception because that's a different scenario. As a little I never think of myself as a child because of the sexual nature and power exchange and BDSM related things. I'm not saying you're wrong, just offering my opinion and maybe giving you a different perspective on how to look at it. Maybe it'll help not pull you out of your littlespace.

Hey thanks for answering! I'm no age regressor, so while being in little space I definitely know I'm still an adult, I'm an age player so it's the kink part, I'm definitely in no actual state of mind of a certain age. I don't know if I explain myself good, but even though it's a kink since I'm no regressor and I'm an age player, I have sfw activities, mindsets and moments I like to have for myself to cope with stuff. But the problem is that while I'm in little space by myself without my daddy, I do it to play an age, so I would like to not be reminded I'm actually an adult in this state of mind if you can kind of understand how I mean it? To have just a little moment for myself. It just ''ruins the mood'' for me if I try to do sfw activities and being reminded about that. For me it's impossible to be an regressor because I just don't have the methods/capability to really be in that state of mind, I think it could also be scary to regress and see blood out of nowhere!

 

I don't know if I explained myself bad in my post, so yes I know I'm an adult and I play the age since I am part of the kink community, it's just that in those moments I don't want to be reminded that I'm an adult while I do sfw activities such as playing alone with toys or watching shows or going to the bathroom and seeing the stain. (Just really want to state that about the sfw dilemma and problem because it's important, and I also know that if you do anything nsfw with your dom/daddy such as being taken care of, a power dynamic starts and you have to be clear and know that you're 2 consenting adults due that dynamic).

 

But if I'm alone at home, there is no power dynamic so I just want to feel... little, innocent, having not to worry about anything and not being ripped away of that happy place when I see that I have to change my pads etc. 

 

Maybe it can be because I would like to regress in those moments when I'm alone, lonely and stressed, but since I'm just an age player this is the reason I feel uncomfortable during my period and being reminded that I have to do again adult tasks and that I'm a grown woman? My therapists also never ever mentioned regressing in front of me, so I shouldn't just do it blindly ''just for fun'' to regress so I can finally stop worrying about certain stress causing moments or Trauma and focus on being little. I know it can be harmful if you're not in the right environment and conditions and not everyone should regress, just and only if you have a professional guiding you. But Idk, maybe it could be that, and that's why it causes frustration in me.

Sorry I kind of had a monologue responding to your text, but I just gained a new point of view and more questions for myself thanks to you and definitely have new and more stuff to think about, thank you! 

 

[Vampiress]

After you explained further I get what you're feeling and why it's affecting you. Thanks for explaining more about it. I'm not sure if I have much I can give in the way of advice though because it's so different for me mentally. If it is an issue you could look into other methods of handling your period (like a cup that will make it so you don't have to change as often and will have hours of littlespace time) or if you're not against using some kind of contraceptive you can talk to a doctor about using a contraceptive to make your periods lighter, less frequent, and/or go away completely. I have an IUD so I don't have periods anymore, and it's pretty awesome. I used to use the pill for the same reason and that worked too, but it was just a hassle trying to remember to take it every day. The IUD made it effortless on a daily basis.

[DollDirector]

what might be helpful I hope is making what I call " daddy sense " (!) of all this.

you don't have a really definite age, if I get it right. you are a little with periods, well, yes, it happens, congratulations, you deserve a reward ! nowadays, some girls start late and some very early, it's not very precise so it's entirely ok. 

[softbrattypuppy]

what might be helpful I hope is making what I call " daddy sense " (!) of all this.

you don't have a really definite age, if I get it right. you are a little with periods, well, yes, it happens, congratulations, you deserve a reward ! nowadays, some girls start late and some very early, it's not very precise so it's entirely ok. 

That is also a cute way of thinking about it! Yes I don't have a specific age, I just do what feels right for me so using that daddy sense is also a great way! Like a little that got it for the first time and sooner than others but still being valid as a little! 

[LittleTeacup]

For me personally having my period doesn't affect my little state of mind at all. It's just a thing my body does, like having to pee or poo. I also first got my period in 5th grade and I was 10, almost 11. So I was still a child!   Some girls get it when they're 9. So if you don't mind age playing as a bit of an older little or a middle, I think your period could be consistent with that. Maybe tell yourself that daddy showed you how to take care of the blood.

 

I think somebody else mentioned this, but there are period cups now that can be inserted and less of a mess than tampons or pads. They are reusable (made of soft silicone) too, and just need to be removed sometimes to dump the blood out and rinse. So maybe using them can help you forget about your period for a while. I personally like wearing what I call "period underwear" which is dark older undies that I won't mind little stains on. Black or red undies are good. Often I don't have stains because I'm careful, but they're for just in case. Maybe you could wear something like that between you and the diaper or onesie.

 

I hope this helps!

[Vampiress]

To continue LittleTeacup's post, I've seen underwear they're marketing now that's specifically for periods and is supposedly absorbent like a pad but you can wash it. I don't know if that's something you'd want to look into. Especially if you can get it in black then maybe it'll make it something that you think about even less.

[DaddysMonkey]

Hi !

 

So , I don’t wear diapers so I don’t have much to offer on that aspect of this topic. I don’t care what other people do , I just can’t get into diapers. Not my thing , pads *feel* like diapers to me and it just makes me feel icky. So I refuse to use pads on my period unless it’s a very small panty liner when my period is ending.

 

As someone that identifies as more middle than little or a much younger space age , my period doesn’t really affect my headspace. I’m pretty fluid , but I would say my range is about 10-15 for my headspace. I got my period when I was 9-10 years old. So I’ve always just been kind of used to it , as it’s nature. That doesn’t mean I like it by any means , I hate most things that come with being someone that has a stupid uterus. I would say it almost makes me feel more middle ? Yes it’s a hassle , and very annoying for me and I hate having a period... but I’m so out of touch with feminine shit in my life I usually bleed all over my pants. Tbh , even though it’s super annoying ... having an accident like that makes me feel like a dumb kid again... so.. That’s pretty much my alarm for starting my period. Like oh fuck here we go again no wonder I’ve been feeling extra cunty.

 

Also , if you have an Apple Watch or can download apps on your phone , there are period trackers to avoids accidents like that ^

 

As for staining clothes you love because you bleed through pads , tampons or diapers... my first thought is my protective brain going RED ALERT RED ALERT ! You should not be bleeding through tampons or pads ect. Even people with a heavy flow (myself included I bleed heavy my guy) shouldn’t be bleeding through to where it’s constantly staining things. That means the tampon is holding too much blood and isn’t being changed often enough which can lead to infections. With pads , it’s obviously not up in you so less chance of that happening but still not technically hygienic. Typically heavy flow people should change their tampons every two hours give or take , then it won’t be bleeding through because it’s not drowning in blood.

 

Kinda gross trigger warning ?

Periods are a touchy subject for me , I hate being a girl but don’t feel the need to be a boy or like I’m in the wrong body. I would rather be a sexless alien. Periods have always made me feel disgusting , my older sister growing up was confused about her gender and hated periods so.... she kind of neglected them. She would wear a pad for literally an entire day... like ten hours... it would bleed through and she would just leave the pad filleted open on top of the garbage for everyone in the house to see... so... I’m slightly scarred in that aspect.

 

I’m not into this kink at all , but if you are it might help :

 

It seems as though there is a LARGE number of people into the breeding kink. If you are one of those humans , getting your period literally means you can be bred. So take that and do with it what you want ^-^ Can’t be bred without blood.

Edited April 19, 2021 by DaddysMonkey