when you feel too grown up

[Novicestitcher]

I am depressed right now.  I feel like everything is pressing down on me.  I am not feeling little lately.  Any advice would pre appreciated.  I don't have a daddy and it looks like I will never have one.

[Guest little_firefly]

Owe so sorry for you! Maybe do things that usually put you into little space like idk watching Disney stuff or cuddle with stuffies, whatever you like.

Umm besides, I think in ddlg anyone can be how and who they want to be, their true selves and anyone is different and unique. Some struggle with their age, some with their appearance (weight, height..). I think you need to try accepting this part of you and think of yourself as a 'worthy' little (if that makes sense)..

 

Final thought: You're appreciated!

Edited April 10, 2021 by little_firefly

[Little Kitteh]

Sorry to hear you feel like that right now. I see you are about my age in real age but I do not know how old you are in little age. I am 4-8 for little age just depends on my mood at the time and what I want to do in my little space. Do you have any favorite kids tv shows? I find that no matter what mood I am in depressed, sad, or angry if I see my favorite show Molang I go into instant little space and smile and laugh. Do you color? I find that coloring or drawing puts me in a bit of a little mood and cheers me up a bit. You don't have to be a great artist I tone down my drawings to more of the age I am at the time of play. Sometimes I need friends to get me in the mood to be little, either littles I have met or just friends I trust that know and accept that I am a little. I love music it is my life, and I love Disney music and have a few playlists on Spotify I listen to that get me in the mood to be little. But even if you try whatever you like to do and it still does not work for you, it may just be that you need to take a break for a bit and try again later. Sometimes I go into little space and just can't shake my adult issues no matter how hard I try when this happens I just watch something middle-related and just enjoy the show.

[Kittykat83]

Firstly please don't think you won't get a daddy. As littles we may want different attributes, whether it be someone into gaming, age, location etc so do daddies too. I don't mean to sound patronising but, please don't give up hope something will no doubt turn up when you least expect it x

Re feeling of depression, do you have a trusted adult or a professional you can talk this out with? It isn't something that should be ignored as your feelings are important and they need to be discussed /understood in order for you To hopefully start leaving those feelings behind you.

 

Also re not feeling little, once your feeling better in yourself, maybe not a 100% but know triggers or get why your feeling down, little you may start returning. But otherwise doing activities as the others have said may help in the short term. But if it's not something you want to push, don't worry. Little you is part of you, it may just be hiding a bit until big you starts to feel a bit better in themselves.

 

My main advise would be trust in another adult or professional, see if they can help you with those low feeling and hopefully once you've started talking and hopefully start gaining understanding, the other issues will start falling into place. Good luck xx,

[Bzgrl]

I feel you.

[WolfieDeamhain]