Deal or no deal.

[DaddysMonkey]

..... Hi. *waves*

 

I’m Monkey and I’m a picky asshole. *shakes tail*

 

Whatever you identify as or are , when you are looking for a romantic or sexual partner.... what are deal breakers for you ? Things you won’t accept or give someone a chance to change ? What are some things you HAVE to have in a partner or it won’t go very far ?

 

DEAL OR NO DEAL HOWIE.

 

Deal breakers :

 

- Bad breath / teeth / oral hygiene. My mother was a dentist , and it’s just a no go for me. If you don’t brush your teeth you probably don’t wipe your poopy butt either.

- White knights. I’m not a damsel in distress , if I want your help I’ll ask. Get off my dick.

- Religious pressure.. I don’t care what religion you are , just don’t push it on me.

- Doesn’t respect elders. If you see an old person and you don’t hold the door open for them , efffffff you man. Old people are why we are here. Even if they can be grouchy assholes.

- Pressure to be housewife / monetarily dependent. I WILL make my OWN money , I will not be trapped , I will not be kept in a house.

- Lies / Cheating. As I’ve stated in previous posts , I sniff this shit out like a hound. You lie or have cheated , you’re out.

- No sense of humor.

- Have your own children. As ironic as it might sound being a middle and all.... I hate kids. I’m great with them , but I don’t want any and I’m not taking care of anyone else’s kids. Might sound selfish , but it’s honest. Better than taking kids in and hating their guts the entire time.

 

 

HAVE to have :

 

- GOOD HYGIENE. If monkeys can do it , you can do it.

- Sense of humor & appreciation for memes. Especially dark humor.

- Vegan. I’ll never judge anyone for what they choose to put in their body , but I couldn’t sit next to someone every single night ripping into animal flesh for dinner. Sorry bud , not attractive to me. Vegans taste better anyways..... if you catch my drift 0:3

- Bigger than me. The person doesn’t need to be ripped , but if I can beat you up I’m not interested. I don’t need someone to save me , but if something goes down .... I don’t want to be protecting my partner. I need a silverback gorilla leader.

- Umbilical cord is cut. I appreciate respect and love for family , but I’ve dealt enough with mothers who won’t let their sons live their lives. I will never deal with an overbearing mother ever again. If your mom hates every girlfriend you’ve ever brought home , she won’t fuckin like me either pal.

 

 

I can think of plenty more , and I’ll probably add later on.

Thanks to anyone in advance that replies.

[(not) Narancia]

Oh my god i am *not* about to pass on an opportunity to be a picky asshole so let's do this babyyyy DEAL OR NO DEAL LESS GOO

 

Deal breakers:

- Not swearing. I know this might sound odd, but swearing is a part of my vocabulary. I love talking shit and i love it even more when i can have a back and forth. I wanna be like 2 monkeys flinging shit at eachother like the complete idiots we are. Sue me.

 

- Anti-vaxx or religious nut. I am okay with skepticism but i'm argumentative and i will lose my mind when you end every goddamn sentence with something that comes down to "How can we ever *really* know?" Shut up. you're just dumb and insufferable. 

 

- Being the "umm ACKTSCHUALLY" person. Oh my god. Correcting me when i am wrong is good but don't be a weirdo. thank youu

 

- Being sheltered. Obviously external factors play a big role but i wanna see the world. I wanna explore and do dumb things. i wanna be a clown and live in the moment. When all this staying at home nonsense fades i wanna be a dipshit in public again.

 

Deal..makers..?:

 

- The big funni. I like doing the haha

 

- You actually smile and laugh. I know this sounds weird, but man something about people who just have fun just makes me happy. I like making people laugh and just to laugh togehter. it's great.

 

- Big brain. Okay that sounds so cringe but i actually like it a lot when people are smarter than me or people who approach things from an angle i wouldn't normally consider. I know this sounds vague, but it's great to have someone to pick your brain and make you do a double-take on things you thought you had settled on before.

 

- Somewhat of an interest in philosophy/politics. As i said before, i like it when someone picks my brain and i can do the same. I want my ideals to be put to question so i can grow as a person and understand other perspectives. Im young and dumb so i need my practive wheels lmao

 

- Being unapologetically you. I feel like this has somewhat been hijacked by weirdos on dating apps who try to be deep and say shit like "man.. you aren't afraid to be yourself.. that's so brave dude.." Regardless of how cringy that statement is, it's still true. Being you is the best thing you can do and it should absolutely be encouraged. We're all unique in our silly, dumb little ways. 

 

I can't really think of something else right now but this was fun! can't wait to read what other people have to say

[TinyLilPrincess]

Oh this sounds like fun!! 

                                                                     DEAL BREAKERS

 

• Overly political, I'm glad you have your own opinion but I do not want to hear about it at every conversation.
• A guy who doesn't control their anger well, I cannot be yelled at, for me that's the probably the worst thing ever and it breaks my heart every time, either control your temper and tone like an adult or leave. 
• Too distant, I LOVE to talk to my person a lot, of course adult responsibilities and all that jazz but a text here and there throughout the day goes a longggg way with me ! 
• Too serious, I'm funny and I love to make messed up jokes, I need someone that I can bounce these jokes off of, I don't wanna walk on eggshells around you. 
• Someone who holds grudges or hides feelings, if you tell me something is fine and we get past it I DO NOT want to hear about it again the next morning, you either let me know we have a problem then and there or you forever hold your piece (peace?) lol
• They want kids, I've chose to be childfree and I do not want kids, I like them and I'm going into a career where I will be working with them daily, I just do not want my own! (read as I wanna be the only baby in this house lollll)

                                                                      DEAL MAKERS  
 

• Bigger than me, sure it's superficial butttt it is a safety thing for me, I'm not saying you gotta be 6'3 and ripped but I just prefer a little taller and a bigger frame, I also like to cook sooooo you need room for all the stuffs I make!!
• Animal lover, I love animals and pets and I'd like to share that with someone
• Honest, if I ask you to give me your honest opinion I don't want it to be sugarcoated, I'm an adult and can handle criticism! 
• A gamer? I freaking love videogames and I will not give them up, I'd love to share that with someone or at least make sure this person is okay with games.
• Someone with a plan for their life, I don't expect you to know everything but I hate when someone isn't ambitious and has no goals. 

 

Hmmm, I'd say these are some of the big ones for me, I definitely have a few more but I'm drawing a blank right now, maybe they make me a picky asshole too buttttttttt it is what it is lol

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Edited March 29, 2021 by TinyLilPrincess

[Guest Teasing Tink]

I have a partner now, so I'll just list ones I had when I was looking:

 

 

Deal Breakers

 

Is a narcissist or sociopath.

This one should go without saying but, they seem to be every where. I'm not one and don't like/trust them, so we won't be compatible.

 

Hates animals or isn't an animal lover

Makes me question how much empathy this person has unless they just don't like them for other reasons, that's fine, but I'm an animal lover. My animals are my children so that wouldn't fly.

 

Is into casual sex/FWB's.

I'm the opposite. I've only ever slept with people I'm in love with and that number is low. If they're not that way too, it means we have different values and we're most likely very different people with different views on sex and therefore, not compatible. 

 

Is into drinking/drugs/partying

I'm not and have never been. It's not how I have my fun. Once again, completely different lifestyles -- we're probably very different people and not compatible.

 

Isn't kinky/adventurous/more dominant/has low sex drive.

We won't be sexually compatible if this is the case since sex is one of the main ways I feel emotionally/spiritually connected to my partner. Physical Touch is my primary love language combined with Words of Affirmation. So I'll just add -- not having the same or similar love languages or where they're good at the ones I prefer and vise versa.

 

Isn't spiritual/into metaphysical shit or at least open to these things.

It's one of my main interests in life and makes up a big part of my world view so it's important to me. If we have completely different world views, we're probably not compatible because we'll have different goals in life. Can't really be a team that way and that's how I see a partnership -- as a team. Other people prefer more autonomy or separateness in a relationship. That's not me.

 

Easily offended.

I'm a sensitive person (within reason) so I understand this, I just don't think I'm well matched with someone who has the same level of sensitivity as me cuz then it just feels like I'm walking on eggshells which totally inhibits intimacy and communication. I didn't think it was possible to find someone who was rarely ever offended by anything but also not a sociopath, but my Daddy is this way. I was pleasantly surprised. He makes me feel free and safe to express myself. Totally uninhibited. He leads with logic which I love. Perfect balance for me. Logical people make me feel safe which I need.

 

Physically, I didn't have crazy standards. I'm more attracted to a person's soul than their physical body and those things tend to bleed into the physical for me -- probably partially cuz I'm demisexual. However, body wise, I guess I wanted someone taller than me but that's not hard to find since I'm only 5'1". They didn't need to be crazy tall, my Daddy just wound up being 6'4". I don't care if you have a dad bod, just don't be morbidly obese. I'm slender/fit and care about my health so it's important that the person either values this or is open to improving themselves there. I can help a person in this area. Overall, I care more about a person's face than their body. Eyes are big deal. A window to the soul. Do they have deep eyes I can get lost in? Cheesy, stupid, small thing, but it's my own shallow thing, I guess.

 

-I never thought I'd date someone who already had kids (though it wasn't a deal breaker per-se), but, my Daddy has three older kids and that all went out the window for me since we had a real connection. I don't even dislike kids, it was just a preference due to insecurities I had.

 

 

 

Deal Makers

 

Emotionally intelligent/high empathy.

Impossible for me to have a close relationship with someone who lacks this. Having a kind, giving, pure heart. A gentleman with with a wild side (in the bedroom) is cat nip to me.

 

Articulate.

I'm a lover of words and intelligence so I guess this is why it's important to me. I just find it a turn on when a person is this way. You can tell a lot about a person by how they choose to write/express themselves. 

 

Has a sharp wit

I'm a sapiosexual so being attracted to someone's mind is a big deal for me. I just find it so attractive. You don't have to be a genius (I'm not), but being hilarious in a clever way is gold to me and such a turn on. The convo never gets boring with someone like this. Always entertaining. And I live to entertain too, so I'll play right back. I guess the mutual desire to always impress each other. It makes things so alive which I love.

 

Playful/Similar Sense of Humor

I like aggressive teasing. Lets roast each other. It's just good chemistry/flirting to me. Someone who can handle my sassiness/inner brat and wants to play with the fire in my eyes rather than being intimidated by it. Yes please! Also, I'm a playful person but my default is on the serious side, so I really need someone who can crack a joke at literally everything and anything to bring out this side of me. It also offers me much needed comic relief which balances me out and prevents me from ruminating on dark shit too much or just taking life too seriously. I don't think it's meant to be taken that seriously anyway.

 

Has an active mind, enjoys thinking about and psycho-analyzing things and can hold a good conversation.

I have an active mind and connect a lot through conversation. If someone can't meet me there, just hard to be close/compatible.

 

Is emotionally intense/sappy/passionate/romantic and likes clinginess like I do.

The word "clingy" has a negative connotation. I don't mean in a codependent way though, just where you both can't get enough of each other because it's like a high. I thoroughly enjoy my alone time as an introvert but I also thoroughly enjoy the high of connecting/interacting with my partner. If someone hates clinginess or is put off by it, there's nothing wrong with that, but they're not for me since I'm a total, shameless attention whore. Basically my partner has to be a fellow attention whore.

 

Has to be weird. But not weird in a WEIRD way.

I'm weird (relatively speaking), so if someone is too normal/in the box, we're too different. They won't understand me and I'll most likely find them boring too even if they happen to like me. Which sounds mean, but I don't mean it like that.

 

Self-contained/patient/calm.

I find this such a turn on and so comforting. It makes me feel safe and turned on at the same time. To be an anchor in my storm. Also it's just nice when someone doesn't so easily fly off the handle and things don't escalate. A calm, patient, effective communicator is important to me because I need things to be really clear to understand. Someone who isn't put off by this or afraid or too lazy to take the time to communicate well. And I'll do the same. I can't deal with people who's coping mechanism is to basically just perma shut down/runs away because they're emotionally unavailable/have poor conflict resolution skills.

 

Good guide/leadership qualities.

The previous trait is a leader quality to me. The ability to stay calm in a crisis, that is or when I'm feeling emotional, for example. I'm a mentally happy/healthy person, so it's not like that's all the time. But I have my moments like anyone else.

 

Maybe weird to say as a little but, open to my guidance/influence and doesn't view it as controlling.

My adult self does have this aspect about me. If our values don't align, then I'm not good for the person. We have to be on the same page about things like Health and stuff because they're important to me. It's also important that I'm open to their influence/guidance too. This is important in all relationships. It means you respect one another.

 

Likes or is open to more traditional roles in a relationship.

I think either way is fine -- depends on the couple, but this is just how I am. And ironically, I don't want them to be traditional in any other way cuz overall, I'm not a traditional person.

 

Isn't put off by my initial shyness or my eventual rambles cuz I can just babble on and on once I'm warmed up and get going.

 

 

Those were the main things. My Daddy has all these qualities. I actually discovered more things I liked after we became friends because I was so attracted to him. Like, this person has everything I like in a person and more. Definitely a soulmate. 

Edited March 29, 2021 by Teasing Tink

[Kitten&Spice]

Ohh this is an amazing post! I am glad you ask on this one!! Being someone who develops I liking for someone over personality first and above all else this is definitely something I have experienced quite often and it really makes me disappointed in a way as the deal breakers are so frequent.

 

Deal Breakers:

 

• Rude and Obnoxious. I don’t like someone who can easily put others down. That or thinks they are better then other Doms and gets upset when they are told they are wrong. They refuse to grow and will get into the stage of thinking they are hot shit and can say and do whatever they like.

 

•Toxic Masculinity. The ones who will immediately say that men are sissy for being emotional or wearing makeup, skirts, or anything else is something that makes them gay. I especially hate when they will immediately refuse to admit someone is attractive if they are a male. Like it just feels so uptight and judgmental to me.

 

•No conversation. I am talking about the ones who will send really vague answers to you and won’t carry on any form of conversation. It doesn’t hurt to ask a question from time to time or at least give a bit back when it comes to answering my questions! Like I don’t know why it is so hard to just talk. And if you can’t then at least give me a heads up.

 

•The ghost. Now this is a little different from ghosting but I can’t stand it when a person immediately stops talking for weeks and then comes back to say hi. I don’t know how many times I had thought someone ghosted me only for them to pop back up after months of not answering and act like nothing happened.

 

•The horn dog. Now I can’t stand when I start talking to someone and they immediately start out of the ball park with either sexual comments or behavior. And when I tell them I am not into that they will “understand” only to proceed doing it again. Like no I am not going to send you pictures and no I am not going to talk. It’s gross and awkward.

 

•The guy who says “I can fix that.” Like I am not wanting to be fixed in anyway and if I did I don’t need some little boy saying he can fix me. It is just out right rude and pisses me off to no end. Like get over yourself. Just because I have issues doesn’t mean that I need someone to swing in and fix them. Some stuff you just can’t fix and when I say I have a trauma with something that they want me to do doesn’t mean that it will go away just because you are nice.

 

• Someone who is a cheater and a liar. I understand people have adopted polyamorous relationships. But one thing I don’t tolerate is when someone says they are poly only to proceed with “well my partner doesn’t know I am looking” or “I assume they won’t mind”. Like first off that is not the dynamic and is giving those who are a bad reputation. Second you are literally lying and cheating! I also don’t like when they continue to lie about who they are and what they like only to be caught.

 

•The narcissist. I have had plenty of years dealing with this behavior and one thing I won’t do is put myself in the same situation again. I won’t be blamed and I won’t be some trophy for you to parade around and toss away once I have no value again. That or be put down just to make you feel better.

 

 

What I do like:

 

•Open and committed communication. You continue conversation and don’t expect me to start it all the time. They let me know how their day is going or when something bothers them. I know what is on their mind and they will give me back the same energy I send out. And I won’t have to go fishing around for answers!

 

•Someone who enjoys life and wants to experience it with me. This can go with long distance or close by. But they want nothing more then to show their life and see mine as well. The closer the better as we can go places and spend long nights watching movies or doing something random! There is never a dull moment and we can find ways to live our lives to the fullest! Even if that is staying up playing games together!

 

•The person who protects and looks out for me! I love the thought of finally having someone around who isn’t afraid to say the things I want to say. I love the thought of having someone know my bad days and immediately jumps in to make those days turn around. Or when they see I am in need of someone to say something they don’t mind stepping in.

 

•Someone who wants me for me. I want to feel valued and be asked! When someone says they made plans to watch a movie or they have a free weekend and they want to go somewhere with me I will immediately hop on board with it! It makes me feel like I am wanted around when I don’t have to ask to do things all the time. I don’t even mind if they want to hear me talk about something and ramble until they can respond. That or randomly send pictures and updates! The less I ask to know and see the easier it is for me!

 

•Someone that is open to knew ideas and knowledge. I myself am nondenominational when it comes to my beliefs. And I have been recently exposed to the knowledge that not everything I am taught is true. I love to keep an open mind and learn knew things and challenge my beliefs. I would love to have someone who also does the same and does not get upset when a question is given! Being able to have a conversation about difficult topics and knowing that I can speak my mind as well as my partner with no problem!

 

•Someone that seeks a bound above all else and I can see as my best friend! It is hard not having friends and people I can turn to and trust! I would love to develop a bound with someone that I know really loves me without a single word being spoken. I guess you could say I love the romantic and fun loving relationship! And to experience and enjoy things together is just amazing! I would love to also be considered their best friend!

 

Of course I feel bad and know that it is hard to fit into those things but I will never expect more then I am willing to do or commit to a person. But recently it is almost impossible to not find someone who is all those red flags. Of course I know and talk to wonderful Doms I just have experienced the worst more then I have the best.

Edited March 29, 2021 by KittenAdrian

[MintieSweetie]

This thread is amazing *watches quietly*

[SmolAetherr]

i guess i could try but i can't say i've given it much thought

 

Deal makers:

 

Honesty/bluntness: i prefer the truth even if its mean and i wish to be near people who will just tell me what they want or what they are thinking about

 

be interesting: i'm into a wide variety of topics and passtimes, music, games, books, history, space and physics i can happily go on about something specific or teach i know this is subjective but make an attempt to be someone enjoyable to talk to and share ideas with

 

understanding and tolerance of mental disabilities: i'm autistic and i've grown up being autistic i have RARELY met another neurotypical person who made any effort to speak to me in my way of communicating, i literally always have to talk on their level and it gets honestly fucking exhausting im tired of living in a world where people like me are pushed under the rug and given no support or recognition so dont expect  me be happy if i have to hide from you also

 

gamers: i've grown playing games like world of warcraft and eve online one of my favorite genres is sci-fi, some people knit or watch netflix all day.. i get on my computer and play games in my free time to relax, always have and always will

 

introverted: im an introvert myself and a self professed hermit but that doesent mean im boring i simply don't connect well to people who prefer the outdoors

 

be able to appreciate and comfort other's who are having a bad day, i have depression and i dont want to have to put a lighter tone on it because the person im with can't handle caring for me, relationships are give and take

 

clingy: i spend alot of my time online due to physical limitations and frankly i just prefer doing it so i have the time to get into some truely amazing conversations and spending time with people

 

music lover: music has this amazing ability to convey emotion and personality so if you have any weird or cool artists you enjoy i want to hear them, it tells me a great deal more about you and its a way to bond and share

 

Deal breakers:

 

don't be a snowflake: i dont get along with people who cant handle certain topics or get overly invested in the actions and existance of people with differing ideologies

 

being a stan: i've seen these people and no thank you, you are putting regular people on a fucking pedestal because they were in a movie or wrote a song you like, hollywood is filled to the brim with the absolute worst of society in terms of personalities and people literally deify this group are frankly cringy

 

be interesting: too many people seem to come out with the same old shit "i like cooking and travel" i too enjoy a good slice of toasted bread and travelling on a bus, be more original.. tell me about what makes you unique because travel and cooking are boring as all fuck

 

flaky: there is honestly a special place in hell for people who will make a plan with your and not turn up without letting you know or will cancel without rescheduling, if you disrespect my time i won't respect you.

 

ghosts: either from a lack of bravery or an avoidance of conflict/confrontation it tells me you are not going to be able to be relied on to tell me what i need to know and im going to be left wondering why you left, fuck off with that garbage, i dont respect people who do this and im not shy about it

 

 

 

 

 

i can't think of anymore but im sure there is more, i am sure i got the importnat ones though

Edited March 29, 2021 by Aetherr

[DerbyNerd]

Deal breakers: 

 

Poor communication - I think this is a pretty common and obvious one. Having someone you can't rely on to communicate with is frustrating and can be really hurtful. For me though this extends beyond just regular communication. If you are bad at communicating what you think and feel (and aren't actively willing to work on that) then its a deal breaker for me. 

 

Wilful ignorance - I know that people can be ignorant for all kinds of reasons but if you are ignorant and flat out refuse to educate yourself then bye. 

 

Misogyny - I'm a feminist rawrrrrrr. Pretty self explanatory here I think. 

 

Only interested in sexual aspects - as an ace/demisexual this is a big one for me. Sex is nice but relationships are way more than that. Once again if thats all you want then byeeeee

 

Racism or homophobia - once again pretty obvious 

 

Always negative - I understand that sometimes life sucks but constant negativity is super draining and yucky. 

 

Drug use/smoking - I'm fine with people living their lives but I don't want that behaviour in a partner

 

Deal makers:

 

Kindness - I feel this is often underestimated as a quality. Kindness is such an important thing to me, this includes kindness to others, kindness to self and just general kindness to the world.

 

Grown up and ambitious - I'm at a stage in my life where I'm wanting to "level up" so to speak and I'd like a partner to take those next steps beside me. I don't want to feel like I am dragging someone through life or like we aren't equal contributors to the relationship 

 

Passion - there is nothing more attractive to me then someone who has a passion. I don't care if its different from my own or if I don't understand it. I'd gladly sit for hours and listen to someone talk about what they are passionate about. 

 

Positive interactions with people I care about - gotta play nice with my family and friends. I think this is really important because I don't want my life to be compartmentalised. Also my dog MUST like you.

 

Supportive - I'm gonna be the biggest cheerleader for you so I'd like the same back. Feeling supported by the person you are with is an amazing feeling.  

 

There are defiantly others but I can't think of them right now. 

[Lollipox]

Deal

Kindhearted, even if they don't wanna publicize it.

Intelligent.

Respectful of Boundaries

Actively listens.

Communicates well.

Patient.

Productive, but also happy to have plenty of "days/nights in".

Helpful.

Caring.

Meets the 50% requirement on their side of the relationship.

Shares Kink or BDSM interests.

Well mannered, or appreciates politeness.

Decent memory.

Genuinely likes me and wants to spend time with me, as much as I would with them.

Happy to grow as people together but as individuals.

 

No Deal

Mean spirited.

Liar.

Lazy.

Passive Aggressive.

Manipulative.

Cussing frequently.

Negligent.

Nonchalantly forgetful (not making an effort to remember things)

Delusions of Grandeur.

Disrespectful of me, my body or my belongings.

Lack of accountability.

Blaming others and unable to reflect on their own flaws. aka a lack of self awareness (which unfortunately is too common).

Acting like a lil pissbaby over stupid stuff.

Emotionally negligent or dismissive.

[LilDemonBaby]

oooh, this is awesome! hmmm, .....deal breakers for me are.....

 

1) long distance. if your out of town i understand. like, if you are in my state or nearby i except that, but if youre out of country? no. my thing is I need tactile affection like snuggles and hugs etc. plus communication in person is a must. if I cant have that then whats the point?

 

2) narcissistic personality disorder or antisocial personality disorder. basically any personality disorder that may become abusive or isolate me. ive had enough of that to last me a lifetime. if you are abusive in general, dont even bother!

 

3) must be clean or groomed. a dirty daddy tells me you cant help me stay clean either. (bad breath etc)

 

4) any lifestyles that disregards or belittle mine. for example, if you are a punk or anarchist or anything really and you expect me to cater to your beliefs and go against my pastel goth loving ass, chances are that I wont make you happy, and its important that we be happy w each other. 

 

5) must have a job or be in college! im in college currently myself.

 

6) if you have mental health issues, thats ok. i do too and i will devote myself to making sure you have the best care possible, but i need the same.

 

7) I am on the spectrum, so please be patient with me! If thats a deal breaker or youre not willing to be excepting or educate yourself......please dont even.

 

8) must be 36 to 40 yr old 

 

9) must communicate! i dont ask for perfection as I can have a hard time too, but it does help! if you bottle stuff up and then explode i freak out and will end it. 

 

10) if you dont like chubby littles/middles thats a deal breaker. i eat healthy foods and i like lite activity, but im naturally chubby and need someone to respect that.

 

12) must be ok w nonbinary people! 

 

13) weed and hemp is fine but nothing else and only social drinking!

 

14) no kids. im a lifelong believer in no kids and i will NEVER change my mind. i had a tubal ligation to seal the deal and im hoping for the same philosophy from my partner. 

 

 

deals......

 

1) kind, loving and PATIENT!

 

2) doesnt mind a brat

 

3) understands and excepts my sad/bad days. 

 

4) understands that i cant drive (i take the bus)

 

5) doesnt hurt to  be alt, tats and piercing's are awesome, but if not its ok!

 

6)  must discuss kinks! I know im kinky but have never been allowed to be so i want to explore myself....

 

7) im a sub through and through, so I need a dom, through and through

 

8) likes food!

 

8) must be willing to discuss methods of discipline and rules as well as actually enforce them!

 

i might have more but this is the majors so far.....

Edited May 18, 2021 by LilAlienBrat

[Accountable Daddy]

Deal breakers:

Smoking.

Drugs.

Tattoos.

Has kids.

Feminist/"equality" obsessed. I want us to be a team. Not 50/50 or "your turn" in the relationship.

Not in the US.

Self-destructive, especially when combined with a constant victim mentality and a refusal to live better.

Close to or over 30 years old.

 

Deal makers:

Wants a traditional relationship.

Deeply loving and affectionate.

An agreeable personality and seeks out her own happiness and happiness of others.

Wants a medium to big family (4+ kids is what I'm thinking). Probably helps to get excited about being pregnant a lot, lol.

Into activities such as knitting, sewing, crafts, singing.

values propriety and etiquette.