Unsure about little age??

[♡ マリィ ♡]

Hi, everyone! Not an introduction post, but I'm Rey and I'm new, and it's nice to meet you! ♡

 

I've always kind of been little, even when I was younger. I recently got into a DDLG relationship after a real one, and my Daddy is WONDERFUL, but I went without it so long that I think my age changed a bit in between the lull?

 

There are times when I'm content being small (I'd say about 6-8) but other, newer times when I'm more bratty like a teenager (around 12-15) and I'm a bit more comfortable that way, but I worry flipping the script on Daddy (and making him learn about brat taming I guess haha??) would be too much for him so early.

 

I don't not like being little, I love it! But I find I like the agency/freedom being a bit older is, and it makes taking some punishments (like videogames, VR, Switch, etc) away from me a bit more... relevant? I also feel like I have a bit more confidence/don't want to be coddled AS MUCH, and when I'm being a bit older I worry I get snippy for something he doesn't know he's annoying with me (overly affectionate, I like to treat him like an annoying dad/older brother and I'm not very touchy in that mode like I am when I'm really small).
 

I guess I'm asking how I can convey this to him without shocking him or making him feel weird about it? It was already hard enough coming out to him as little and I guess my brain hasn't completely accepted that (as I know he has) he likes me regressed/small. I also don't want him to misconstrue that I don't want the connection we have when I'm very vulnerable and I DO need him!

 

English isn't my first language, I'm really sorry if none of this makes sense! I'm just seeking advice. ^^"

Edited March 24, 2021 by rey

[MasterPhotog]

If you're asking how to let your Daddy accept and treat you based on how little, middle or bratty you may be feeling at a certain time, express it with your behavior and  non-verbal, body language.
That would let him know how to treat you based on how you may be feeling at that time. Hope it helps. 

 

[♡ マリィ ♡]

If you're asking how to let your Daddy accept and treat you based on how little, middle or bratty you may be feeling at a certain time, express it with your behavior and  non-verbal, body language.

That would let him know how to treat you based on how you may be feeling at that time. Hope it helps. 

I think that's what I'm struggling with... I don't truly believe that he has an issue with either of my ages, I think I just have trouble letting him know when I feel one way or the other when being "little" hits me. Thanks for the advice, that's super kind of you! I'll work on crafting some obvious cues.

[MissNMTX]

Its something that we all have to figure out and may struggle with. I know for me its more a process of elimination. Its easier for me to say what I don't want/need than it is for me to articulate what I do.

 

The key for me is to continue learning and being as self aware as I can.

 

The second part but maybe the most important as always is communication. You have to be able to say as much as you can, whenever you can. That's the hard part!