Opinions on Pacifiers???

[Froggy♡]

So I definitely have an oral thing when im little- I like having something (usually fingers etc.) in my mouth when I am- and my daddy mentioned maybe getting a pacifier to try out. I feel a little bit weird about it as it wasn’t something I haven’t ever considered before. I’m definitely open to trying it, I might really like it. Has anyone else felt this way before trying it? Does anyone actively use them and how is it for you?? Just looking for some help- thank you ^^

 

P.S. I don’t know if this is important or not but I definitely experience age regression when I do get little, so idk if that changes anything but something significant

[MissPattch]

Hey Froggy ^^

 

I'm the same, if its not my thumb in my mouth, its my dodi >.< I'd never used one before, and have been a thumb sucker my whole life. When i met my daddy, he was very encouraging about swapping thumb for dodis and i was apprehensive a little at first, but now i absolutely adore them >.< I went from having none to having 3 lol

 

My first one was an actual adult sized one, its beautiful and handmade by a friend on here. The shield is a little bigger and the whole thing is a little heavier, but i love it. The other 2 are regular baby size shields, like the ones you can buy from the supermarket baby section, but daddy just swapped the teat out for a big girl one. They are lighter, and much better for everyday use, also cheaper. 

 

Keeping an open mind is definitely key. I was never sure about the whole ABDL thing, but now i am definitely in the Yes camp for that ^^

 

The thing to do is just try. More than once.  The first time you will be full of emotions and feelings, so the second time you will be able to get more of a feel for how you feel about it in reality. If that makes sense >.< If its not for you then thats ok too <3

 

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[Akuchiakuba]

I actually use my pacifier extensively. I only have one, but I have a really bad habit of grinding my teeth and chewing on my knuckles when I'm bored, stressed, or just spacing out. So for me, the pacifier is really important. I use it so I have something else to chew on and don't end up hurting myself. It helps a lot!

 

I felt a little bad about getting one at first because I'm definitely not ABDL or anything, but my other little friends encouraged me to try it anyway, telling me that pacis didn't have to be a strictly ABDL thing and that if it makes me comfortable I should use one. ^^ I'm really glad I followed their advice.

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(...) and have been a thumb sucker my whole life. (...)

 

Feel free to ad me if you wanna ask questions

 

Hello, Can I add you please?

 

I am new here and trying to balance my Little emotions and Big emotions about this... Sucking my thumb.. Pacifiers..

 

I am ready to try the pacifier, but it has been embarrassing enough being an adult who can't stop sucking on her thumb even just at home.

When you say that you're full of emotions and feelings when you first try the pacifier, what do you mean exactly..? Good feelings? Bad feelings?

 

Thanks

[MissPattch]

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When i first tried my dodi, i was  anxious about how it would feel and how it would look, i knew it wouldn't feel the same as my thumb, so i didn't know if i would get the same level of comfort. I wanted to please my Daddy so i had some anxiety about not liking it, because my first dodi was an expensive gift from him.  It felt strange at first, new textures and shapes, so i only used it for a little while, and i couldn't fall asleep with it at first either, like i did with my thumb. 

 

After a while though, the emotional and psychological connections started building, and it became associated with feeling safe in my daddys care, and soothing, and i relaxed more and more. Now i can fall asleep with either dodi or thumb. Also, if i've been misbehaving and daddy says its early to bed, he gives me dodi just before and it helps me settle and start to feel drowsy enough to sleep.

 

I still use my thumb, mostly when Daddy can't be here and i can't ask for dodi, or when my son is with me. 

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(...) I had some anxiety about not liking it, because my first dodi was an expensive gift from him.  It felt strange at first, new textures and shapes, so i only used it for a little while, and i couldn't fall asleep with it at first either, like i did with my thumb. 

 

(...) if i've been misbehaving and daddy says its early to bed, he gives me dodi just before and it helps me settle and start to feel drowsy enough to sleep.

 

Thank you very much, I am so happy I get to make new friends here!

 

So, I'm feeling exactly the same right now! If an expensive pacifier is bought for me and that I don't like it, I will feel horribly guilty… Just thinking about it gives me anxiety. My thumb is the only thing that can really soothe me and bring me to sleep.. But from what you said, I understand it takes some time and that maybe I will just have to be patient and keep an open mind. I can be such a stubborn creature of habits sometimes.. I like it so much that you can now fall asleep with it!

 

Also, since you're mentioning misbehavior, I feel so reluctant towards the pacifier at times that I came to see it as a punishment… For back talking or being insolent for example. But my partner doesn't really punish, first, he doesn't have to, and then he wouldn't want me to associate the pacifier with anything negative.. that's something I can only be grateful for!!

 

I'm still lost but I already feel much better, knowing I am not the only one to have been through this!

Thank you!! XXX

[Guest puppies4]

I was nervous to try one, at first, and it took some time to get used to, but I started to prefer it over using my thumb. When I am deep in little space, that's when I prefer it the most, however, I don't use one anymore. They are comforting and soothing though and once you starting using it often, you get comfortable with them.