I just got ghosted and this hurts bad

[Daddydomlovexx]

Hi... I just wanted to make a post to vent

I just got ghosted once again... even tho she gave me a reason the next day I thought oh well I can work it out with her and then I go to message her and she deleted her tumblr and I thought oh maybe it just got deactivated because tumblr does that but I go to here and notice she deleted her account on here as well this happened on my last ex and it absolutely sucks if you have ever been ghosted I’m sure you feel my pain but I’m hurting and all I want is to find my special someone and to have a little

Edited March 10, 2021 by Daddydomlovexx

[Guest UnicornPuff]

I’m sorry. That really sucks bad.

[moonlightbae14]

hello there, i have no experience in a relationship but anytime i get vulnerable with someone, i end up getting ghosted. the longest talking stage i had with someone was about 2 weeks. he was very sweet, caring and overall everything i ever wanted. he texted me everyday, asked about me and wanted to get to know me on a personal level. i went as far as getting him a therapist because he's neglected to acknowledge his mental health and the way he copes with things.

 

it hurt to know he ghosted me out of the blue. i truly felt as though we had a connection. we had really deep conversations and for that to just disappear hurts my heart.

 

and i'm sure you will find your person. it may take a while, but never lose hope. good things come to those who wait. it's easier said than done and you never know who it might be with. if you ever need someone to vent/rant to, just send me a message

[Guest Bashful_Flower218]

I'm sorry this happened to you. This happened to me on another site, so I can understand the hurt. I just recently was talking to someone about this and the affects it has on a person. I hope you meet someone who suits you. 

[DaddyDomination]

It happens to everyone, if you been in the relationship pool long enough. I find a lot online are married in real life, or with someone trying to fill the void their other half is unable, or unwilling to. 

 

It's not easy over the internet to determine people's intentions or level of Honesty. 

 

Considering I spent a large portion of My life having to rely on LIE detection to literally survive, I've gotten pretty skilled with noticing the patterns of dishonesty. 

 

Best thing you can do for yourself when Ghosted, is bury the hurt with new happy experiences, and keep moving forward. 

[Kitten&Spice]

I am sorry to hear that. Ghosting sucks and with how things are now it seems to be extremely common. It is horrible to see it happen and even worse when it happens to you. I know it’s hard to think positive on it but I always see it as dodging a bullet when people ghost me. It just shows me how immature and cowardly they are. And when I think of that I know it shows how they really are and I don’t want that!

 

Don’t lose hope and know that it takes a few bad trials to find the perfect fit! And you will find the right little for you it just takes time! I am sure that the right little will come along and you will be glad that you held in there and waited for them!

[Guest BubblesLovesDisney]

Hi... I just wanted to make a post to vent

I just got ghosted once again... even tho she gave me a reason the next day I thought oh well I can work it out with her and then I go to message her and she deleted her tumblr and I thought oh maybe it just got deactivated because tumblr does that but I go to here and notice she deleted her account on here as well this happened on my last ex and it absolutely sucks if you have ever been ghosted I’m sure you feel my pain but I’m hurting and all I want is to find my special someone and to have a little

I'm sorry to hear that things didn't work out between you and the little. I don't wish to come across as antagonistic however if she gave you a reason as to why she didn't want to continue talking to you it's not ghosting. It's actually very mature and respectful. Even if she did then block you. It's not about whether you could've worked it out with her had she given you the chance, it's about respecting her wish to no longer pursuit things with you. As hard as that can be. I do hope the right little comes along soon for you though. It doesn't hurt any less when someone you're interested in is no longer interested in you.

 

I'm also very sorry to hear about your ex. Being ghosted sucks and unfortunately is far too common a thing to happen in this day and age.

 

All the best.

[Nymph]

Ghosting is a blessing, it might not feel like it at first, but once you realize it's not necessarily you and most likely their issues, then you realize you dodged a bullet.

 

If however, you are getting ghosted specifically after sending a dick pick, talking about sexual stuff or a kinky fantasy for the first time, then it means you guys moved at a different pace and not likely to be a match anyways. Because as much as people complain about them, we all get to that point where one of those (if not all) those things are actually welcome XD

 

Another thing that is pretty common is the person is married or in a relationship and got caught or them feeling so ashamed that they run away from it when things start to feel real (which again, that is their issues and not your problem).

 

Like Bubbles mentioned though, is not really ghosting if they say they apologize and give you a reason you are not a match. If however, what she gave you was an excuse and made you believe you were still good and staying in touch, then she did ghost you indeed.

[BabyButtercup]

I've been ghosted before and even when they give you a reason it still hurts so bad. This isn't a reflection on you they def have some troubles they are working through they shouldn't have hurt you in the mean time though that is completely unfair to you.

[AussieMelbourneDaddy]

Hi... I just wanted to make a post to vent

I just got ghosted once again... even tho she gave me a reason the next day I thought oh well I can work it out with her and then I go to message her and she deleted her tumblr and I thought oh maybe it just got deactivated because tumblr does that but I go to here and notice she deleted her account on here as well this happened on my last ex and it absolutely sucks if you have ever been ghosted I’m sure you feel my pain but I’m hurting and all I want is to find my special someone and to have a little

Ghosting really sucks and I feel your pain. My coping mechanism is to look toward the positives of the dynamic. I choose to see it as I’ve been able to fulfil all that they have sought to find (even if it’s a realisation that this isn’t the lifestyle for them) and they “grow up”. This is a risk that every daddy faces (and is ever present in little life to).

 

See the blessing, if they ghost you, they aren’t your perfect little princess and creates room for you to then find “your one” and provides learning to share openly about what you want and need from the dynamic and your forever little ☺️

 

I really hope this helps, and if you need someone to talk to, please hit me up.

 

AMD

[Guest PerfectImperfection]

I am sorry to hear about you getting ghosted. as someone whos had this happen many times I can tell you in a way it is a good thing. This shows she definetly didnt deserve your time or attention and allows you to reflect and find someone better. After beng ghosted many times myself I've learned how to see through peoples lies and focus on ones that truly want to be there for me. What you should do is take a step back and try to focus on yourself and find things that make you happy becuase a hard truth I've had to learn is happiness comes from withn not from someone else. I hope youre doing better.