Switching out of little space

[Blueybluex]

Does anyone else feel it takes some time to switch out of little space at times?

 

I had a hard time yesterday, it’s been really stressful for me for a while and achieving little space had been difficult but it finally happened yesterday and I was so happy! But then after a while my daddy wanted to do ‘it’ but I was still in little space mode so I said not yet cause I know I needed some time to like readjust my brain?! Can’t explain it. And he took it as me rejecting him even though I wasn’t and then I got really sad and now feel like I can’t go into little space around him for fear that’ll happen again.

 

Anyone else have this problem and offer some advice?

[DerbyNerd]

For me I find it depends on why I'm switching out. I can drop out of little space in an instant if something stressful is going on or if someone needs my help but it costs me more energy and I'm generally exhausted after. If I come out of little space naturally I couldn't really tell you how long it takes because I just kinds let it happen and float in the feeling. 

 

Sounds like you need to talk to your daddy about what happened though. Does he know your little space is non-sexual, cause if he does its kinda unfair of him to try and initiate spicy times while you were vibing in little space. 

 

Maybe you guys could try him giving you a time warning like you'd use for a bedtime or something. Like this "hey *insert pet name here* I'm going to need you to be big soon, lets have 10 more minutes then some adult time". This give you the opportunity to take your time, tell him you need more time, or anything else you want to tell him. 

 

You could also try to build a positive association between being big and a trigger (songs can work well for this) where you then use the song to help you come out of littlespace. 

[junebug0325]

For me I find it depends on why I'm switching out. I can drop out of little space in an instant if something stressful is going on or if someone needs my help but it costs me more energy and I'm generally exhausted after. If I come out of little space naturally I couldn't really tell you how long it takes because I just kinds let it happen and float in the feeling. 

 

Sounds like you need to talk to your daddy about what happened though. Does he know your little space is non-sexual, cause if he does its kinda unfair of him to try and initiate spicy times while you were vibing in little space. 

 

Maybe you guys could try him giving you a time warning like you'd use for a bedtime or something. Like this "hey *insert pet name here* I'm going to need you to be big soon, lets have 10 more minutes then some adult time". This give you the opportunity to take your time, tell him you need more time, or anything else you want to tell him. 

 

You could also try to build a positive association between being big and a trigger (songs can work well for this) where you then use the song to help you come out of littlespace. 

 

I 100% agree with this. A lot of times it can take some time for me to transition out of little space and other times it can be instantaneous. It kind of just depends on the environment and things that are surrounding my life (i.e. if I'm stressed because of school, etc).

 

The best thing that I have learned, both to get in little space and to get out of little space, is to associate certain activities with being in little space and coming out of little space. For example, if I'm having an inkling to be little and it's not coming naturally, I will change into a cute outfit, sometimes put on a diaper, or drink out of a sippy cup. Activities that put me into little space can include coloring, watching My Little Pony or similar kiddo shows, or doing crafts. Doing this associates these things with me being little and makes it easier to slip into little space.

 

On the other hand, when I'm in little space and I want to get out of little space, I will change out of my little clothes and into "big girl" clothes. I will work on school work, read a mature book, or do things that make me feel big. 

 

Additionally, communicate with your partner and tell him when you want to be little or when you want to transition into big space, and I'm sure he will be able to help you. My Daddy is able to recognize my tendencies to help me transition into my desired headspace. Obviously, not everyone can be able to do this, but the more you communicate with your partner, the easier it gets. 

 

 

 

Junebug x.