Daddy Isn’t always around

[_BabyKittyCat_]

My Daddy has work during the day and I have to stay at home without him. I am a VERY needy little and start to self-doubt if I get left alone/go without attention for too long. I really need to find ways to distract myself or keep myself occupied long enough till I can see him again. I’ve looked online but there aren’t many answers for help on my question. He also can’t really text during the day, so I couldn’t even contact him if I tried. I need help urgently!!

[Aiden14]

Hewo there. If you would lke to contact me and chat Id be happy to. 

[Jessie<3]

I would also be happy to chat. I get the same way when ny daddy has work. Especilly night shifts. Im sure we can come up with some things together!

[SmolAetherr]

best advice is literally, make some friends and pick up a hobby, its simple but trust me on this.. it works.

[Bluelight421]

I would suggest making some good little friends! And finding a hobby you enjoy that you can totally immerse yourself in, hopefully that will make the time go quicker!

[Vampiress]

If you are looking to make friends you can try various online communities even outside of here. Disboard has a whole plethora of all types of discord servers where you can meet people and make friends. You can also try Twitch. Most people assume it's just for gaming but there's categories of all kinds of live streaming where you can chat with the streamer and other viewers and join their communities (most have a discord). If you are a gamer, then twitch and discord are a great place to meet other gamers to play with.

 

As the others said a hobby can really help. Join some communities that are about the same hobby and immerse yourself more. You can do this on all the social media platforms.

[DaddysMonkey]

I’d like to ask what you mean by doubting yourself , as I feel like it was glazed over and might be the most important part of your post.

 

Self doubt as in ? Looking outside the relationship for attention and affection , doubting yourself as a little , the fact that you can stay at home , that it might not be healthy for your mental state to stay at home ?

 

I’ve tried being a stay at home little in the past , I fuckin hated it. It wasn’t the lack of attention , but rather the lack of stimulation from other humans , not making my own money , and feeling completely dependent on another human for all my needs. Didn’t last long and went to full time job with overtime only after a few months.

 

Maybe you need to discuss a part time job with your partner , getting out of the house a little bit , do some volunteer work around your area (while being safe with COVID of course).

[StrngButSweetDD]

I agree with DaddysMonkey on this one.  It might not just be your Daddy's absence, but another void or issue.  A lot, probably MOST people aren't going to be happy staying at home all the time.  So you probably should do some soul searching and talking with your Daddy on that.

 

Otherwise, finding activities to do that bring you joy (and ideally help your and your Daddy's situation by helping, making money, etc.) is going to be the best thing you can do.

 

Good luck!