Kinds of Rewards and Reward Systems? Please Help

[Froggy♡]

I was hoping someone could give me some ideas for a reward system. This is both me and my partners first daddy/little relationship, and while we have the punishment/rules/etc. aspect down, we haven't really figured out a good reward system. I was hoping someone could help me out with examples of things they've done in the past? Both with what the reward is and how you gauge it?

 

One thing I've seen a lot of is material rewards (buying new stuffed animal or something when they earn enough points etc.), and while I think that can be okay sometimes, I don't want my rewards to rely on him spending money- if that makes sense?? I'd also really like to try to not make little space or cuddling a reward because then I'd feel like that couldn't be a thing we just do sometimes??

 

Thank you for your help, I'd really appreciate it!! Just trying to figure out what is best and what has worked in the past since we have no idea how to implement it.

Thanks!!

- Froggy <3

Edited February 26, 2021 by Froggy♡

[Jessie<3]

You could try going somewhere thats free as a reward? Like a park or beach if you live near one.

Or yoi could play your favourite board game or watch your favourite movie as a reward.

 

I know some people have a sort of reward chart too which you could use so you need a certain amount of points to get a stuffie e.c.t so that its not as often that you would get something you have to pay for.

I hope these help!

[Vampiress]

Some random ideas off the top of my head:
-If you have any element to your relationship where he picks a part of your outfit, then maybe you can have a reward of getting to choose for yourself.

-If you live together or have meals together, a reward that you can pick what you are having for the meal or for dessert.

-Pick some special activities you might not mind being rewards because perhaps they are infrequent anyways. (Tea party, blanket fort, picnic, etc)

-If you like cooking maybe a reward to cook/bake something fun or special together.

-Pick a tv show and have watching episodes together as an easy to earn reward (like daily chores).

-Pick a book that you earn for him to read the chapters to you.

-Pick a game to play that you can earn time for to play together.

-If you like bubble baths maybe you can earn special baths where he sets it all up for you with bubbles or whatever it is you like in your baths. Perhaps bath toys, too!

-A fun reward could be learning something new together or trying something new. Maybe a new craft, skill, etc.

 

Just be careful with some rewards. I said a single tv show/game/book because it would take the fun out of it if you had to earn time for EVERY single time you did those activities. You should have some that you participate in together regardless because that time is special.

[LittleTeacup]

If you like praise, a reward could be some super extra special nice praise about how good you did on the thing that you're being rewarded for.

[StrngButSweetDD]

This is a good topic.

 

I like to give rewards that are small, simple, but layered with meaning rather than monetary value.  I don't often buy "stuff", but will do a special thing for her instead, like pick flowers, write a little note for her, etc.

 

My primary reward is simple praise though.  It really means the most.  Like stop her, take her aside, have her sit in my lap and hold her or lift her chin to look up at me.  And then tell her in detail what she did that I admire and that made me proud of her.  Just the words "good girl" are a powerful reward.  I make sure I always say them in a way that carries a strong message to her.

 

I also like stickers.  They're cheap, they're cute, and you can assign them with your own meanings secret from the rest of the world.  I bought a little packet of teacher's A+ stickers with a cartoon star blasting off... and I give her one every time she gives me ALL of her body, in every single way, within 24 hours.  The A+ student of pleasing   That's a fun treat to give and for her to receive