Expressing the joys of finding this community.

[Dollie Darling]

So I know I've posted quite a bit since I've joined, and I hope I've made at least a few new friends, but I wanted to post a place where I can both express how grateful I am for this community and to ask what this community has done for others, I like hearing that sort of thing.

 

 

 

Just like I love reading through to see what these kind of dynamics or these kind of spaces mean to each person separately. I've always been a little too open minded in the aspect that I love prodding at other people to hear their thoughts and feelings on a matter, simply because I think it's beautiful to hear those view points and learn what it could be through someone else's eyes. To see the differences and similarities, the manners of coping and growing and learning together.

 

 

 

 

Maybe there are plenty of people on the outside that don't understand, but that's fine; there always will be and they don't have to. But seeing so many people just comfortable and unafraid to be themselves, their true selves right down to the fact that they're enjoying life the way anyone would want to; without having to deny themselves of something that isn't harming anyone and is allowing free expression.

 

 

 

 

I would love it (if anyone is comfortable) if I could hear some of what being a CareGiver or a Little/Middle is for others, what it's meant to you, what you get out of it.

 

 

 

I personally love being a little/middle more than I thought as it allows me to do the nurturing kind of things like (cooking, cleaning housework) but also getting the nurturing back in a completely different way that allows my partner(s) to have the much needed control/responsibility they need in their lives, while knowing I'm in trusted hands. It's helped me be more comfortable with myself and around him and started giving me a more carefree expression that I didn't even know I needed! 

 

 

To grow together and learn about new things; even when it's years later there will always be new cute stuff for me to get excited over and other things to put my daddies in space. The discovery, the growth.... it's always just beautiful to have and I would like to hear that from others too!

 

 

 

Hopefully this was okay to post here, I've just always loved being able to come on and read this kind of thing through the stress of the day!    

 

[Nymph]

Aww * hugs *

what this community has done for others,

For me this forum has provided a wonderful place to make some like minded friends, I tend to be very friendly and open but I mostly keep DDlg labels and kinks to myself in real life. When I was younger it was easier to find people who I could relate in person but a lot grew out of it or got very jealous partners so it got awkward. It's nice to have a place to be myself even if I do mostly keep to PM's these days.

what being a CareGiver or a Little/Middle is for others, what it's meant to you, what you get out of it.

I come from an old fashioned family were girls are basically raised to stay sweet and obedient and I am cool with that, however we are also expected to "grow up" so we can be a good wife and mothers... not so cool with that. To me growing up is to mature, to learn, to evolve. Not giving up who you are and what you like. So again, I get to be myself and makes it easier to find like minded friends.