NinjaKitty Posted January 13, 2021 Report Posted January 13, 2021 I stay with my parents as emotional support for my mom. Me and mom have a great relationship and we talk about everything together even sexual preferences but when I told her i might be a little she said something along the lines of ' no your not and ddlg is for pedos' what do i do shes used to my ' childish antics' but i can't go little in the house. My bff knows but we cant hang out alot because of work. Any advice?
ScarletBaby Posted January 13, 2021 Report Posted January 13, 2021 My advice would be for you to communicate how hurtful her words were and try to explain a bit more about what ddlg really is. My mom found out a while ago as well and said something similar. Once I explained that no one in ddlg is interested in being with children and that it was consenting adults who have a specific dynamic where one likes to be cared for and let their inner child be free and the other one likes to help the one with a childlike wonder keep an innocent mindset at least for a time, she understood a bit more. She loves me and the last thing she wants is to hurt me, so she listened in earnest when I wanted to explain it so she avoided such hurtful words again. If she doesn't understand, even after the explaination, and doesn't try to, then my advice is to simply let yourself be Little when in the confines of your room when you know you won't be interrupted and find a way to your own space when you can. It's hard, but if she can't accept that part of you then it's best to just participate in it away from her. I'm sure your mom loves you and is just confused based off of misinformation she's heard from intolerant people out there. I hope this helps at least a little
PapaGrayWolf Posted January 14, 2021 Report Posted January 14, 2021 Be little in your heart even if not overtly. You are not going to convince your mother that DDlg is safe.
NinjaKitty Posted January 14, 2021 Author Report Posted January 14, 2021 Thank you guys for the fast replys i dont think moms gonna change her mind but thank you guys for the support
Vampiress Posted January 14, 2021 Report Posted January 14, 2021 We do have to consider that we can't force our kinks and dynamics on those who don't consent so if your mom is really against it then you'll just have to do so in private and keep it away from her. Since it's your sex life it's not really her business if she ends up hating something you're into. 3
NinjaKitty Posted January 17, 2021 Author Report Posted January 17, 2021 This morning my boyfriend kept telling me how cute i was and so i told him i was a little he is now acting like i didnt say anything about it even though i know he heard me. Is that good or bad. I dont know what to think.
Little kaiya Posted January 17, 2021 Report Posted January 17, 2021 Nobody here can really tell you if it's good or bad. Talk to your boyfriend directly and ask him how he fells about it as that's the only way to know how he feels. 1
Dollie Darling Posted January 18, 2021 Report Posted January 18, 2021 There is some really solid advice in this thread! I have had the all ddlg/mdlb people are pedos convo and it's hurtful every time. Yours is on the rougher end of the scale seeing as it's not only a family member (and no one wants to be looked at that way by someone you're close to, especially a parent) but someone you're living with, which makes it very hard. However, they're right; the best option is to keep things to yourself. I do not live with family, but there are very important family members (that I help take care of) that I can ONLY be big around. I've learned to start doing things that help me be little, even if I can't fully immerse. Like, keeping my bottle in my carry bag, and getting a cuter carry bag. Making sure my hair is "up and out of my way" but cutsie enough to make me feel like a cute little girl! When it comes to the bf... They're right there too. You have someone who's already making it hard for you to feel comfortable about yourself, you don't need mixed signals making it worse. If you're truly loved for who you are (little and big) they'll understand, and if they're going to make you ignore your little self (Not even requesting you keep it away from them, just ignoring it out right) then they may not be a good fit. You should talk to him and express that him ignoring it all together was very hurtful for you.
NinjaKitty Posted January 19, 2021 Author Report Posted January 19, 2021 Thank you guys your advice is really helpful and nice
Dollie Darling Posted January 21, 2021 Report Posted January 21, 2021 I hope things have gotten a little better for you!
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