Daddy and I broke up, tips for being little alone?

[Guest littlebabyslittlespace]

So we broke up in November, things are tough, I miss my little space. He moves out soon too so I will be completely alone. Any tips for doing the whole little thing by yourself?

[Little_Brat2]

I know stickers make me little so maybe start a journal to draw in and place stickers EVERYWHERE 

 

I'm still stuck where I can't do diapers and the full extent so I can't help there I'm sorry, but I would say get some stickers, journal, crayons, and coloring book 

but maybe thats just me 

 

Hope this helps! 

 

 

Forgot to add this before sorry! If you ever need anyone to talk to feel free to message! 

Edited January 9, 2021 by Little_Brat2

[Jemas]

i hope this can help you but there is a show that i watched called the blacklist and in one part they are being given advice (context wont match but the message can help)

 

the quote goes 

 

There is nothing that can take the pain away, but eventually you will find a way to live with it. There will be nightmares, and everyday when you wake up, it will be the first thing you think of, until one day, it will be the second thing.

 

this quote really helped me thru a few breakups that i had

 

essentually its saying things will get better ... this isnt the end 

 

i hope this helps 

 

as for feeling little alone ... find something that makes you happy ... something that makes u smile and do that everyday ... sometimes twice ... color a picture ... play with the bee in ur photo .. whatever it takes to make urself smile each day ... your little side will come out 

 

and if you need someone to talk to .. im here 

[Stujw]

U ok hun i love ur channel I’m here if u need to talk

[Guest bad_apple]

I just put on some clothes that make me feel little, grab a stuffie, put on some cartoons and colour.

It's simple but effective for me.

[Lilminamoo]

You don't ever have to be alone! Places like this are perfect for making little friends. Find someone to keep you company and just be silly with them. As for when you are actually alone, find a cute video , do some colouring or just make yourself look cute. One of my favourite things to do is to put something pastel on, do my hair and make myself look cute, take some crayons out and listen to cute music.

It can be hard being little when you keep getting reminded of your CG though and I completely understand that. I am sorry that your relationship has ended and I hope that you are okay.   

 

Sending big hugs your way,

Moo, x

[LittleTeacup]

I'm always little alone. I don't really do specific things to be little though since it's a part of my personality and it just happens. When I daydream about my cute future home, when I giggle over something silly, or when I get sad over bad things in the world.

 

I can be little while cuddling with my soft blankets and my pillows. I still have my baby pillow that's been with me my whole life. I also find squatting while doing whatever (even working on my computer) is a little thing. I move my body in ways more common for young children than adults, like sticking a leg in the air while on my back or walking around with my arms out like an airplane.

 

Usually what happens with me is I start feeling little, and then I do stuff little me wants to do. Not the other way around. And some things are always "little" for me, like I always prefer children's animation or family movies to adult movies. I try to stay away from R ratings unless there's something specific I want to see. I just find the G rated stuff more fun and appealing.

[PapaGrayWolf]

Add me as a friend if you would like to talk, and as others have said, this too, shall pass.  I speak from experience.  

[SomethingCharming]

My Daddy and I broke up too, he wanted to date other girls

 

I live alone too, and like to wrap myself up in blankets and a dressing gown while watching my favourite shows and colouring. I miss having a daddy, but I've set reminders on my phone for when I need to go to bed, and there's a few channels on youtube for bedtime stories that help get me to sleep. 

[Guest Lakshmi]

I went through a hard breakup last year and tbh it took me almost a year to feel little again.

 

I started doing small things at a time: one day drawing, other watching my fav movies/cartoons, etc.

 

What helped me a lot was able to speak with my 'little self' and explained what happened. Yep, might sounds like I'm out of my mind... But 'big me' was healing while 'little me' didn't understand what had happened. I have an amazing pro-sex therapist with whom I have a regression to start my healing process as a little.

 

But my biggest advice is TAKE YOUR TIME! Don't force yourself into it. Healing after a breakup is not a linear process, and some days can be harder than other.

 

I promise it always gets better.