About Emotions

[Froggy♡]

Just a place to speak about issues emotionally? I dont know just looking for advice please thank you

[Froggy♡]

So I told my daddy that I love him a month and a half ago and he said he wasnt there yet. Thats completely okay, but he’s moving back to college soon and taking alot more classes which means I won’t be able to see him anymore (at least not nearly as often). I want to check in but am I allowed to? Ive been torturing myself with the fact that he doesn’t love me back nearly every day. I know he’d say it if he felt that way but I’m not sure I could handle not at least opening the conversation again before he moves. Any advice please?? Im really struggling and it hurts very much

[ThatOneGuyTho]

You should talk to him IMO, this is giving you all kinds of anxiety.. If you try to hold this all in, and he goes off to college, things are just gonna feel much worse for you IMO. There's absolutely no harm in talking to him about your feelings. I hate to say it, but guys can be really flaky about the L word.. But I think you owe it to yourself to find out where your relationship is going, be very honest with yourself about what you need from him. I hope it all works out for you.

[SmolAetherr]

I dont see why you wouldn't be allowed to, communication is important so if you need to have a talk about those 3 words you really should, make sure he is aware how you feel about him not being there yet and be sure to listen to him also, his feelings matter also and if he doesn't feel that way it's not okay to pressure or pester him, let things happen naturally if you are safe and secure with him those 3 words wont change anything about that.

[Littlemisspenguin]

I feel you should definitely talk with him. These are your feelings and important ones at that. If you are giving yourself lots of anxiety thinking about it, you might feel a huge sigh of relief letting it out. He will at least know where you stand.

 

I would also agree aetherr, and say I wouldn't pressure him about it. You want to get your point across but let him come to you at his own pace. Saying those 3 little words is such a big step.

 

I wish you the best of luck, and feel free to message me if you need a listening ear.

[Vampiress]

You need to talk to him for your own sake and also to see if he has any idea of where he intends this relationship to go. It's entirely possible if he's leaving that he may not see it getting serious due to that. College is going to keep him very busy with studies and such so you'll both have to be very realistic about the limits that will present your relationship with. If he's still interested, then maybe he really just needs time to be sure he is in love. For some people we fall really fast, and other people take their time but at least when they finally come to that point you know they've really put thought and consideration into it and that they are sure about it, and that means a whole lot.