How did you find your Daddy?

[madsybby]

Hello! I'm a little on the search for my perfect Daddy, but I'd prefer they be near me so I don't have to do long-distance again. I see so many other littles that have caregivers that they know and spend time with in-person, so I'm wondering... how did you meet them? Did you start long-distance then move to be closer? In other words... tell me your secrets ;n;

 

I've joined several kink-related groups for my area, but they seem very limited in the DDLG aspect.... I would love to hear any other options out there.

 

Thanks! ^v^   

[Little kaiya]

[maddycakes]

I met my Daddy at college! I know it may seem very difficult to find a daddy in non-kink spaces, but they are out there, and most people (if they genuinely care for you) are at least willing to explore. Obviously this route isn't for everyone, but I'd say even if you are set on finding an experienced daddy, it's good to be open to other possibilities  

[Guest Teasing Tink]

I met my Daddy on a dating site (okcupid) but I was looking for a soulmate first and a Daddy second but I knew if they were soulmate material, they'd naturally be kinky/adventurous like me anyway. However, my Daddy was just looking for platonic friends on there (so perhaps I was looking for a friend first and soulmate second lol) so it was very unexpected that it even turned into more. I was just responding to messages I received that really moved me and resonated with me or that seemed moved enough by what I had written to want to form a real connection and weren't just interested for shallow reasons. I had less luck when I tried initiating a message first cuz maybe I'd just choose people who I got a bad vibe from and then overthink it too much for too long, then finding out my initial instincts were right when I finally worked up the nerve to message. With a person messaging me first, at least I could know they were interested enough to put in the effort to write me something thoughtful. Some people just like to see who likes them back on there and don't message. I liked that I could read through questions people answered on there too. Helped me get a much better picture of the person and our compatibility before engaging but I'm a very cautious, analytical person.

 

My Daddy lives in my area so we're not long distance. I personally prefer for things to start off online though cuz I have trust issues and I like taking my time analyzing and testing a person with the separation of a screen before meeting up. So many creeps out there which I thankfully never met in person.

 

Anyway, my Daddy and I are very serious about each other, have known each other for over a year now and are more in love than ever. Definitely a soulmate.

 

Good luck!

[Wittle_moon_babygirl]

Honestly I found my daddy on facebook dating, we started talking and I told him my secret and he was like "no way. I'm a daddydom/switch" and everything kinda just clicked, and now we are looking for another little together!

[Shakeygiraffe]

At the office :-) we’d always had really open, honest conversations, and it just kinda happened. That was 4 years ago. Still together, still working two desks apart :-) xx

[Jasesbabygirl]

He’s been my best friend for the last 20 years. I’ve been in other relationships but He’s been the only one I’ve ever truly loved . I thought it was a one way street but we were close as best friends . He’s not been with anyone since he and his ex wife split up 15 years ago .

 

I finally got the courage to tell him how I felt a couple of months ago and he felt exactly the same and was too scared to tell me . Anyway ; between his nature and our trust because we’ve known eachother so long, he makes me completely comfortable in showing my LG side . Today I gave him the pet name papi

[Guest Daddy'sSweetGirl]

I met my daddy when he was in the military. Neither of us had discovered this lifestyle but after we got married we discovered tendencies that the two of us had and began researching it and started engaging in this lifestyle. For me most of the people i've talked to learned about the lifestyle first so i guess me and daddy are backwards hahaha

[Jessie<3]

I met my daddy at college. We became in a relationship but never spoke about ddlg until very recently after we have been together for a year. Both of us were interested but scared to tell the other. Last night actually i called him daddy for the first time and he called himself it. So i guess since last night i have a daddy

. If you find someone and you truly love them and they love you, im sure they would ve willing to try. And they will love every part of you if youre meant to be x

[NoodleDoodles]

I was hired for my dream position in my career, he was in charge of mentoring me and I shadowed him for a couple of months.

 

I was blown away by his ability to command a whole room and lead with such care. I had never met a man like him.

 

He started offering me snacks on our breaks and I would shly decline. He would make me tea on chilly winter days, and offer me a sweater. I would deny I was ever cold, when I was.

 

One day he called me out on it and said "let me take care of you, it's okay"

 

The first time we spend time together outside of work, I was a giggly girly pile of goop. He colored with me and showed up with snacks.

 

On our second date, he took me on an adventure and I climbed a tree, got stuck and scrapped my knee trying to get myself down. He helped me and told me how adorable I was.

 

Fast forward a month or two later, I decided it was time to tell him about my lifetsyle as things where progressing and I was sure that he was the Daddy I had been praying for. I was involved in the local kink scene for a couple of years but had yet to connect in that way because I was waiting for a Daddy who I would feel safe offering myself too.

 

He had never heard of this dynamic, told me he would do some research. We had plenty of discussions and he fully accepted.

 

We have been together for a year, we are both so happy with the depth of how our relationship has develop.

 

We don't work together anymore, fewf! I would not be able to conceal the love and adoration I have for him.

 

We later found out we also went to school together many years prior, he was the teaching assistant in one of my classes. I would not have been ready for him at that point in my life, thank goodness I crossed paths with him again for a second chance at connecting!

 

He is still growing and evolving as a Dom and I am still surprised at the deeper levels of devotion, sillyness and submission I keep discovering along the way.

 

This is it for me, this is the life

 

 

Awww writing this has made me feel all soft and gushy.