Daddys, how do you dominate?

[GoodGirl4Daddy]

Hi there! I'm new, and not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I have a question for the daddys...

 

Can you tell me about the "Dom" part of what being a daddy dom means to you? I feel like the daddy part is kind of instinctive caregiving, but I'd like to understand more about what being a dominant daddy means, and why you enjoy it?

 

I would be thankful for any insight you gentlemen would like to share.

[Alaskan Daddy]

For me I feel for me to be dominate with a little is something she gives me through the love and care I give her emotionally. Out side the bed room I am only strict when it concerns the health and emotional well being of my little. As far as being dominant in the bed room it is some thing that turns me on, not only from the pleasure I get from it but mostly from the pleasure I am giving her. It brings us closer together knowing I am nurturing both her emotional and physical needs at the same time. I love the power she gives me over her body knowing I am giving her the sexual pleasure she craves through her submission. At the time she is giving me the dominance I crave through her submission. Having both me and my little share a huge emotional connection makes the dominance more intense and satisfying. I receive for a both a physical and emotional high from such a relationship. It is so rewarding knowing I am giving my little both the emotional and sexual needs that she desires from me. To me it is a loving power trip I feel.  I hope my words help you understand what i was trying to tell you

[GoodGirl4Daddy]

Thanks so much Alaskan Daddy! I definitely understand the sexy part of the bedroom domination. I discovered DDlg through my fairly generalized spanking fetish I've had since I was a child. I guess it's the loving discipline part that feels unique about this dynamic and that I'm trying to understand better.

[Little kaiya]

I asked my Daddy your question and this was his answer:

 

"For me it's about helping you become the best version of yourself. It's supporting you in tough times, giving you a nudge in lazy times and a loving spank in bratty times. It's about the look of unconditional live when I hold you in my arms or the vulnerability when I wipe away your tears on hard days. It's about knowing I can be your rock and help you be you, ALL of you."

 

I don't know if that answers your question but I know as His little it certainly is humbling and also makes my heart sing at the same time.

[Alaskan Daddy]

The loving discipline aspect of any DDLG relationship is the most rewarding for me. To hear the words from my little when she tells me how loved and safe she feels because I took the time and energy to keep her on a path of good behavior and self love. To hear the words that I am making a difference in her life melts my heart every time. It tells me that I am giving her the right amount of love, care and strictness that she needs and desires from me.

[James Connolly]

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Edited June 7, 2024 by James Connolly

[Guest allyourdreamscometrue]

The dominant part comes through by being strong, confident and decisive. Providing discipline appropriately and consistently.

 

My preferred form of domination is mental, which is more easily witnessed in the confidence and decisiveness. Where i can just use my words or a look to affect behaviour.

 

I'm very attracted to submission, and I find this type of domination is the best way to encourage submissive behaviour from my babygirl.