Advice for a Daddy doing long distance with his little.

[Guest Grey_Moon]

Hey all! I've just taken on the role of Daddy for a sweet little that lives several hundred miles away from me. This is my first LDR with a little and I was hoping for some advice on how to be a consistent, present and all around good Daddy for her.

We're currently keeping things platonic and non-committal until we get to know each other more as well as keeping our dynamic SFW. She is very religious and wants to be 100% sure of her partners before becoming sexual, which I fully support.

How can I be the best Daddy I can be to my sweet princess?

[Waffles]

Hei! I just want to say that I think that this is super sweet and I love the fact that you both respect each other boundaries and are not rushing into things.

 

LDRs can be tough, I'm not going to lie, but you 100% can make them work.

 

What has worked for me in the past is keep up good communication. If one of you knows you are not going to be able to talk for awhile, be sure to let your partner know. This is really important (at least it was for me). Also, make sure to talk about the little things. Because you guys are doing LDR, the little things matter, meaning talk about what you got for lunch that day, if you saw a bug, what other conversations you had with people. Small things really become big things in LDRs.

 

Another thing is setting up simple rules/tasks (once you guys are comfortable with that). This way, your little has something to do and tell you about/show you and you can praise her with uplifting words, compliments, and so much more. Even more so, if you guys get really comfortable with one another, you can send her gifts to show that you are super happy and excited that she finished the tasks you gave her, or that she ate food that day, or she worked out, etc. etc. (you get the picture).

 

I think the biggest thing that is being truly honest with one another. You have to be able to communicate both the good and bad things to one another. If you don't ever talk about the bad stuff, the relationship will more than likely fail. If you know you did something that she isn't going to like, don't hide it from her, tell her. Being able to openly talk about these things will really help you guys with trust and will allow for you both to see that there is nothing to fear in your relationship. Also, this will also show that you are completely open and honest with your partner.

 

I hope that this helps you out, even if it's a little bit. I wish you two the best of luck and I hope you guys can eventually meet ^.^