Online relationships

[Daddy darkside]

Is there anyone on this planet or in this forum that has had a successful online relationship that blossomed into a true real life relationship?

[Little kaiya]

I couldn't do it as physical touch is super important to me but there are definitely people who have made it work.

[Guest princesslovelace]

Define "true real life relationship" ...do you mean a relationship that started online and then they ended up meeting and it became a physical relationship? Or do you mean a relationship that'll last a life time? Well, me and my boyfriend met online and on March of next year that'll be 2 years of us together. We really love each other and want to meet one day. We even have a future planned together ♡ So yeah...I guess people can have true real life relationships

[Lollipox]

Yes.

[Bubbles_and_Feathers]

Yep, my girlfriend and I met online about a year ago and we live together now.

[MissPattch]

I met my sons father online 15 years ago, we lived together for 9 of those years. It works if you both want it to work, and if you both make it work.

[HisKat]

I met my daddy online and we are actually engaged to be married on the 3rd of February.

 

I had been in other long distance relationships that never worked out because of one reason or another but I feel what worked for us was we started out purely as friends to see how we were with each other. You hear it all the time but commutation IS KEY. I've had many relationships end because of lack of communication. You have to find time for eachother, work your schedule around so you can make time for eachother. For me personally I am big on him just letting me know what's going on so I'm not left in the dark. He will tell me if he is going out or going to work ect. which i do in return so we know that we are safe, where we were in case of some random emergency and how much we will be on our phones, if that makes any sense. It helps with the anxiety of "why didn't they message me" ect ect. I had a previous relationship where the person never told me anything and would barely message me and never call, I would message and wait hours on end to even know if they were alive.

We also call everyday (if possible) at night time, as that is when we both are free to talk. I am actually moving to be closer to him before the wedding and of course cuddles but thats beside the point.

Another big thing is the persons intentions in the relationship match your own. For example your are looking for something casual make sure they are too, you are looking for something that can hopefully end in marriage, make sure they are too so you don't get your heart broken because someone didn't have the same intentions as you.

All in all just finding ways to make it work for all involved. You will most definitely have some bumps in the road but as long as you can go through them and learn and adapt from it, you'll be fine.

 

I hope this helped some if any at all

[Tasha-Pasha]

I met my daddy online and we are actually engaged to be married on the 3rd of February.

 

I had been in other long distance relationships that never worked out because of one reason or another but I feel what worked for us was we started out purely as friends to see how we were with each other. You hear it all the time but commutation IS KEY. I've had many relationships end because of lack of communication. You have to find time for eachother, work your schedule around so you can make time for eachother. For me personally I am big on him just letting me know what's going on so I'm not left in the dark. He will tell me if he is going out or going to work ect. which i do in return so we know that we are safe, where we were in case of some random emergency and how much we will be on our phones, if that makes any sense. It helps with the anxiety of "why didn't they message me" ect ect. I had a previous relationship where the person never told me anything and would barely message me and never call, I would message and wait hours on end to even know if they were alive.

We also call everyday (if possible) at night time, as that is when we both are free to talk. I am actually moving to be closer to him before the wedding and of course cuddles but thats beside the point.

Another big thing is the persons intentions in the relationship match your own. For example your are looking for something casual make sure they are too, you are looking for something that can hopefully end in marriage, make sure they are too so you don't get your heart broken because someone didn't have the same intentions as you.

All in all just finding ways to make it work for all involved. You will most definitely have some bumps in the road but as long as you can go through them and learn and adapt from it, you'll be fine.

 

I hope this helped some if any at all

 

Congratulations on your engagement! I liked what you wrote here; it was a well thought out response. I agree with everything that you said. Communication is so important in ANY relationship - whether it is online or in person. It is also so important that you are both putting in the work and making the effort to make time. There have been a lot of times when things have just fizzled out for me in a relationship because either I or the other person was not as invested in making time. And you are right, it is so important to ensure that you are both working on the same goals and intentions in the relationship. I have had a relationship where our intentions did not match up and got my heart broken. C'est la vie, that is how I learned to ask early what their intentions were to make sure that we matched up.

 

It is nice to hear from other people that they have found success in meeting and connecting with others through online interactions. It gives people like me hope that it will happen to us as well!

[Guest Witika]

Before I decided that I wanted to be just a submissive, I did some switching. I had an online submissive for nearly 5 years and it blossomed into something really beautiful! It didn't end up working out as I wished but she's still my best friend. Anything can happen though. Just hope for the best and be positive.