Daddy Colin's Bunny Posted October 22, 2015 Report Posted October 22, 2015 Hi I'm new to the DDlg lifestyle and I'm hoping to make friends and learn more about the lifestyle. I'm 27 years old with a Daddy, and three children. Are there other Little's with children? How do you find time for Little Space? I need advice. Thank you.
Guest Lovesdaddy1972 Posted October 22, 2015 Report Posted October 22, 2015 Hi Bunny - older little here, 43. My son is 16. But when he was younger I would use his nap times to enjoy little space. That is going to be tough with three children I am sure! Maybe your Daddy would be willing to help out with them once a week so you can just have some time to be "little"?
Daddy Colin's Bunny Posted October 22, 2015 Author Report Posted October 22, 2015 Hi Bunny - older little here, 43. My son is 16. But when he was younger I would use his nap times to enjoy little space. That is going to be tough with three children I am sure! Maybe your Daddy would be willing to help out with them once a week so you can just have some time to be "little"? Thank you so much for the advice! It means a lot to me to meet a little who has children! Daddy and I try to have time when the girls are all asleep, but its sadly short lived whennone of them wakes up and wants to sleep in bed with us If I'm not being too personal, how long have you been a little?
MrBonesWildRide Posted October 22, 2015 Report Posted October 22, 2015 Hey there! You're absolutely not alone in this. We actually have a topic on this very issue if you want to contribute: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/427-ddlg-relationship-after-having-children/ 1
Guest Lovesdaddy1972 Posted October 23, 2015 Report Posted October 23, 2015 Thank you so much for the advice! It means a lot to me to meet a little who has children! Daddy and I try to have time when the girls are all asleep, but its sadly short lived whennone of them wakes up and wants to sleep in bed with us If I'm not being too personal, how long have you been a little? Not personal at all! I think I have always known I was little since I was young. But never understood it until about 10 yrs ago. I always thought something was wrong with me and would just cry because of it and also because I was wanting the whole Daddy thing. Plus not really understanding the D/s dynamic. But I met a bunch of great friends in the lifestyle that helped me embrace who/what I am. I cannot stress how important it is to have support from others! Wishing I could turn back the clock about 20 years. At 43 I feel like I lost a lot of time not seeking what is truly in my heart and is a huge part of me. 1
Daddy Colin's Bunny Posted October 23, 2015 Author Report Posted October 23, 2015 Not personal at all! I think I have always known I was little since I was young. But never understood it until about 10 yrs ago. I always thought something was wrong with me and would just cry because of it and also because I was wanting the whole Daddy thing. Plus not really understanding the D/s dynamic. But I met a bunch of great friends in the lifestyle that helped me embrace who/what I am. I cannot stress how important it is to have support from others! Wishing I could turn back the clock about 20 years. At 43 I feel like I lost a lot of time not seeking what is truly in my heart and is a huge part of me. I wish I could say the same thing. I don't have any friends around me that I can talk to about DDlg. I'm terrified to tell anyone because my family is so judgmental and I don't know how my friendswould act if they found out. I'm pretty new to all of this so I'm not sure all the basic "rules" or anything. My Daddy is my husband and I kind of brought it up to him. He's more comfortable with the domination aspects of it, so I'm not sure if me acting so childish is adding to his concept of "great my wife is like another child I have to take care of", ya know. I don't want my marriage and family to be ruined because of me and my need to be treated like a child. God its so nice to have someone to be able to tell this to and know I'm not being criticized or thought of as a menatk case.
Guest Lovesdaddy1972 Posted October 24, 2015 Report Posted October 24, 2015 I ended up making friends in the lifestyle on another site so that is how I met my friend. The only basic rules are made by you and your Daddy. Everyone's dynamic is different. Make sure you communicate your worries you mentioned above to your Daddy. Having open, honest communication is vital. 1
Daddy Colin's Bunny Posted October 25, 2015 Author Report Posted October 25, 2015 I ended up making friends in the lifestyle on another site so that is how I met my friend. The only basic rules are made by you and your Daddy. Everyone's dynamic is different. Make sure you communicate your worries you mentioned above to your Daddy. Having open, honest communication is vital. OKthank you for talking to me! It was a lot of fun! *huggiess*
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