Looking for some advice...

[LittleGirl1921]

Am I in the wrong when I cut off contact with a potential "daddy" when their first message instructs me to call them daddy? Or when the just send me a list of rules. No "Hello" or "My name is..." They always get so mad when I stop replying but some of them really rub me the wrong way. They always try and make me feel bad. They like to call me a bad little and tell me that if I cant listen to them, no daddy will want me. One got really mad and kept messaging me nasty things even when I wasn't reading them anymore. I've never given out my number, just kik. But I just don't understand how they can think this is okay. Has anyone else had to deal with this?

[Phoenix78]

I think a lot of little deal with this at least once. I don't usually respond if they do that. It makes them seem off putting and if they get mad I usually just muted the kik messages and don't look at them

[Alaskan Daddy]

as a daddy I don't see anything wrong that you have done. I don't believe a 'real daddy' would do the things that were done to you. Some of these men are master manipulators and try to use the struggles of a little's negative self- worth against them for their own perverted pleasure. If you are not being respected then there is no reason for you to give them any kind of respect. Good for you for standing up for your self. Don't feel bad about blocking anyone who will not respect you as a person. Good luck 

[Guest liljeannie]

Unfortunately there seems to be a lot of bottom feeders out there that think they can go after littles and try to play mind games. They are not true daddy doms if they ignore consent and belittle you. You don't have to put up with it. You have the right to tell them to bugger off.

[baby_k]

Used to have that a lot when I was younger and more openly also looking for sexual relationship ( now I do more selection to whom I talk to, and I also assume that my age scares worst of those away + I'm not as interesting as someone lot younger ). So, it's not about you at all, just that those dudes think you are somehow good target -thou just to point out, they probably target almost anyone they happen to spot.

 

Doesn't matter if you are little or not: that is not a way to treat anyone. So, they just lack any human decency. It's not normal what they do, they are not normal, that behaviour is not normal, nor acceptable.

 

Just try to see that those are scum who have no manners, and how their behaviour has nothing to do with you. And do not think for a second that you should be okay with their demands or behaviour. Just imagine your ( vanilla ) friend telling they are experiencing same, and I'm pretty sure you would be horrified. Ddlg is no different from any vanilla world encounters: people should show respect and courtesy to other people.

[MasterPhotog]

I very much admire your courage to cut off contact with a 'wannabe daddy'. Such idiots give bad name to genuine Daddies. 

I'm happy that you have great advice from members who have responded to you before me. Based on your own self-respect and great advice that's available to littles on this Forum, I'm happy that it's a safe place to be for littles with or without experience. Best wishes going forward. 

[Guest Teasing Tink]

Of course you're not in the wrong. That's generally the result when you reject someone with a fragile ego (typically a narcissist). Fortunately, it's only happened to me a couple of times. It was mildly amusing and a bit jarring. Trying to knock you down a peg/shame you is their way of trying to punish you for daring to bruise their ego. It's like a child throwing a temper tantrum. All it does is make you feel like you made the right choice for rejecting them. If you want to test someone's character, just tell them "no" and see what happens. Narcissists walk around with a sense of entitlement, normal people don't think they're just owed your affection and trust. These are things a person will happily earn if they have integrity. Edited November 27, 2020 by Teasing Tink

[Guest Daddy_Jeremy]

Never let anyone make you believe that you are wrong for cutting these people off. Being called daddy is a privilege that must be earned. Noone should try and make you call them daddy until you have both agreed that they have earned the privilege of being given that title, and that should only occur after a period of communication during which a relationship has developed between the 2 of you that is built on Respect and Trust. These people obviously have no respect for you or the title of daddy and have done nothing to earn your trust and respect, thus you're totally in the right for cuttung them off. They are no daddy, and have certainly not earned the privilege of being YOUR daddy.

If you want to talk further about it or anything else, feel free to add me and send me a message.

Edited November 28, 2020 by JerryAUS

[Ms. S -BabyPinkDom]

You’re definitely in the right. Anybody that tells you to call them any title immediately is a fake dom and doesn’t care about your consent. Block them.