i fell so bad rn about everything

[snowwhitebunny]

hey guys!!

 

i asked my ex to be my daddy again and he said no and now i feel like a clown.

 

any suggestions to get over him?

Edited November 15, 2020 by snowwhitebunny

[PapaGrayWolf]

Time.  Give yourself time and if you need to grieve over your loss, do so.  It's part of the healing process.

 

As for contacting your ex, don't.  I know that's difficult but letting go is essential.

 

Be well, and if you care to, contact me through messages.

 

Michael

[snowwhitebunny]

Time.  Give yourself time and if you need to grieve over your loss, do so.  It's part of the healing process.

 

As for contacting your ex, don't.  I know that's difficult but letting go is essential.

 

Be well, and if you care to, contact me through messages.

 

Michael

 

Thank you so much but things kinda turned around and he said yes? Hehe

Im confused

[PapaGrayWolf]

The yes is great, but be cautious. 

 

Thank you so much but things kinda turned around and he said yes? Hehe
Im confused

 

[LonelyLittleGirl27]

I created a rule for myself after a toxic relationship with my first boyfriend (not a Daddy). The rule is: NEVER get back together with an ex. I’ve never seen it work out for friends/family members either. The reality is if things were bad enough that you broke up, it’s unlikely that they’re magically going to get better. Unless it was some kind of misunderstanding that led to the break-up or there is solid commitment to work through whatever the issue was, I wouldn’t do it.

[FortuitouslyFaulty]

I created a rule for myself after a toxic relationship with my first boyfriend (not a Daddy). The rule is: NEVER get back together with an ex. I’ve never seen it work out for friends/family members either. The reality is if things were bad enough that you broke up, it’s unlikely that they’re magically going to get better. Unless it was some kind of misunderstanding that led to the break-up or there is solid commitment to work through whatever the issue was, I wouldn’t do it.

People do change. I feel like if you have a rule like that then you're very pessimistic about human's in general. I haven't ever gotten back with an ex but if things aligned better this time, which you'd find out through good communication and just looking at their life now, then why not give it another shot? As people change and grow the fit could be better than it was before.