Advice Really Needed...

[xx.strawberrykitty.xx]

Hi! I'm a baby, I have a daddy and he's my boyfriend but there is a problem. Well not really a problem...but my daddy is a switch and needs to be little sometimes. I've never been a mommy before, but I really do care for my daddy and I want him to be happy always. Soo I really need advice and tips on how to learn to be a switch I guess? I don't really know what to do. I've never even thought about being a mommy before. What do I do? Please help.

[daddymind]

Hiya! Being a switch is not a one size fits all thing as you can probably imagine. You'll need to talk it out with the guy. Ask him what he wants as a little as he'll have his own ideas about it. The more open he is about it the better. You can then decide if it's something you're able/willing to do for him. If he's too shy to say it to you (which can be the case) then maybe get him to write it down. It may be he likes having done to him what he does as a daddy, so it'll be easier to improvise.

 

You could ask things like "what would you like mommy to do?" to make him feel more comfortable (as long as you're ok with that too!).

 

Good luck and keep communicating with each other about it.

[Kitten&Spice]

You actually don’t need to be a switch I order for him to go into little space! You can both make it like a little play date! And just do little things together! Kind like if you were going over to a friends house type thing! You can do a lot of things that make you both regress and have fun that way!

 

However if he is looking for someone that is a mommy you can ask him how much responsibilities he will have and get to know his little self! Ask questions and see what would work best! It is always best to communicate! And once you figure out how he is then try to see how you can help him getting into the headspace? Baby talk, nicknames, head pats, and maybe even asking him if he wants to play are a few examples! Then you can take care of him and treat him the way you can!

 

This of course is suggestions on the more nonsexual little style. My advice is primarily limited to that alone but I am sure that there is others who can give proper advice on the other end of the spectrum! Good luck and hope this helped!

[xx.strawberrykitty.xx]

Thank you! That's a great idea<3 But he really wants me to be a mommy for him (sometimes)

[xx.strawberrykitty.xx]

Thank you so much!

[SmolAetherr]

Thank you! That's a great idea<3 But he really wants me to be a mommy for him (sometimes)

 

the thing you need to remember is you dont need to do this especially is its outside your comfort zone, if you are looking to learn that is one thing but to do it purely for the joy of another when you dont feel comfortable well that will show in how you act with him and he may be expecting a dedicated mommy in those times and i dont see that working well for either of you so maybe you need to give that some thought

[xx.strawberrykitty.xx]

the thing you need to remember is you dont need to do this especially is its outside your comfort zone, if you are looking to learn that is one thing but to do it purely for the joy of another when you dont feel comfortable well that will show in how you act with him and he may be expecting a dedicated mommy in those times and i dont see that working well for either of you so maybe you need to give that some thought

  

Thank you<3

[DaddyD94]

Hello guys and girls I'm new to this forum. I'm a daddy/Caregiver. But here is a question that maybe yall can help me with please.

When I'm at work I'm not close to any bathroom so I decided to start wearing diapers for wen I have to go #1, does it make me any less of a daddy/Caregiver because I wear diapers at work?

[Little kaiya]

Some littles like their caregivers in diapers, some don't and some are anywhere along that spectrum. That said, nobody gets to define what makes you a daddy/caregiver except you. So, if it doesn't make you feel like any less of a caregiver then it doesn't. If it does then it does, thats up to you, not other people.