For the ABDL people...

[MissPattch]

I have a question, any insight or opinions would be welcomed...

 

When you first used a diaper, what was your emotional reaction? Thoughts? feelings? How long before it became the "norm" and an everyday part of your dynamic or little space? Did you have any conflicts between little you and big you? how did you deal with it if there were? How did your partner (if you had one) support you? 

 

I'm asking because i still feel i'm relatively new to DDlg and want a better understanding of some of the more in depth aspects of everything little, and to help me better prepare if ABDL is something i ever decide to try.

[Jemas]

Although i am a Daddy now and the last time I was was 10 years ago, my first experience was that it was amazing … to feel the warmth incase you .. it did tickle a little bit but It was a good kind of tickle 

 

It will take time to learn how to use one cause but I would recommend that you sit on a toilet in a diaper and go .. then work your way up to standing .. then sitting .. then laying down … 

 

as for conflicts none what so ever

 

I will say this always try something once if you enjoyed it do it twice .. then if you still like it then you enjoy it 

 

You can also message me if you need more advice .. ive been into this stuff for almost 12 years (legally). so I can share any advice I have gotten

[MissPattch]

Thanks for your reply, Jemas ^^

 

I'm just trying to pre-empt any thing that might crop up if i ever decide to take this path 

 

I'm a big fan of trying everything twice too, to make sure ^^

[Guest borderlineophelia]

I have a question, any insight or opinions would be welcomed...

 

When you first used a diaper, what was your emotional reaction? Thoughts? feelings? How long before it became the "norm" and an everyday part of your dynamic or little space? Did you have any conflicts between little you and big you? how did you deal with it if there were? How did your partner (if you had one) support you? 

 

I'm asking because i still feel i'm relatively new to DDlg and want a better understanding of some of the more in depth aspects of everything little, and to help me better prepare if ABDL is something i ever decide to try.

When I first put on a diaper, I felt kind of....sad/embarrassed. I felt kind of weird especially knowing there were elderly people on the packaging of my diapers. It felt gross to me, especially considering they don't fit properly. I still am not diapered 24/7 because of that and money problems, but it's gotten better! My daddy does 100000% support me. Now it helps me get into deep littlespace whenever I use them! For me they're not sexual in littlespace, they make me feel small and happy. (Wetting is a sexual kink for me though.)

 

If you want to try it, I think you need to prepare yourself for the fact that you may feel indifferent or embarrassed at first. Most do and that's totally normal! Don't give up on them on your first try. Hope this helps   

[Little Cheetah Cub]

For me when i first put one on, it felt as if i belonged in them so it became the norm pretty fast.

[Guest lrashi]

Well for the most part, at first you'll have mixed emotions about it. Wearing first and getting comfortable is the first step and using is another. I have medical issues which negate the thought of "should I really do this" though my comfort level when I first had too was not up too par, but it grows on you. But having the correct prints is also a plus. Knowing where to get little appropriate ones is also a must! They do have a comforting feel in the long run.

[Stujw]

I’m abdl I can link you some good sites

[MissPattch]

When I first put on a diaper, I felt kind of....sad/embarrassed. I felt kind of weird especially knowing there were elderly people on the packaging of my diapers. It felt gross to me, especially considering they don't fit properly. I still am not diapered 24/7 because of that and money problems, but it's gotten better! My daddy does 100000% support me. Now it helps me get into deep littlespace whenever I use them! For me they're not sexual in littlespace, they make me feel small and happy. (Wetting is a sexual kink for me though.)

 

If you want to try it, I think you need to prepare yourself for the fact that you may feel indifferent or embarrassed at first. Most do and that's totally normal! Don't give up on them on your first try. Hope this helps   

 

This is what would concern me the most, dealing with any negative emotions i might feel, like shame or embarrassment, especially if they came up on me quickly.  

[MissPattch]

Well for the most part, at first you'll have mixed emotions about it. Wearing first and getting comfortable is the first step and using is another. I have medical issues which negate the thought of "should I really do this" though my comfort level when I first had too was not up too par, but it grows on you. But having the correct prints is also a plus. Knowing where to get little appropriate ones is also a must! They do have a comforting feel in the long run.

 

This is how i would hope i would end up feeling, comfortable and secure. I just know there'll be hurdles in the way before i get there >.<

[junebug0325]

Heya,

 

So, I've tried diapers a couple of different times, all of them being different brands and different companies. The very first time I tried, I wasn't super sure about it. I didn't end up using it, I just wore it. I did that for awhile, because I wasn't really sure if I enjoyed them or not. I guess my biggest issue was that they didn't fit properly. I got medical diapers from the store without doing my research and they ended up not being a very good product, so I think that attributed to my dislike towards them.

 

I kind of gave them up for a while and then decide and to get back in to them again with the help from my Daddy. That time, I did do my research and I found a brand that I decided to try because I heard they were good quality. After I tried them, I was still unsure, but I was more inclined to get back into them because at least this time it was comfortable. 

 

I guess for me, it took me awhile to even get used to wearing them, nevertheless using them. Still now, there is a sort of conflict that I have because of societal norms, between big me and little me. Thankfully, my Daddy really encourages me to wear them and that's why I do. Whenever I have them on, they always make me feel super small and safe, it's just the process of getting into them.

 

The best thing to help me is seeing a bunch of other littles and ABDLs on Instagram and Tumblr. It makes it feel more normal and less taboo. Of course, my Daddy helping me is probably the biggest reasons. Without him, I don't know if I would be into diapers like I am now.

 

Thanks for posting!

 

 

 

Junebug x.

[Guest lrashi]

This is how i would hope i would end up feeling, comfortable and secure. I just know there'll be hurdles in the way before i get there >.<

Just take your time and do it in private time when no one is around to explore your options, a happy baby is a comfy baby.

[Guest Teasing Tink]

I've only gotten the chance to use them once but plan on playing with them more once me and my Daddy are living together. I didn't realize it's normal to have trouble peeing in them at first so I felt frustrated with myself for that during the experience until I realized later that was normal. That sort of interfered with my excitement/the bonding experience of it at the time. I think I was able to go in one by sitting on the toilet, then Daddy changed me. I wasn't able to go with him in the room, unfortunately cuz it made me nervous but I'd probably be able to do it now since I feel more comfortable. Daddy is always equally excited to try new things as I am, so he supported me by just getting into it. I see it as a bonding experience as well as a chance to feel small. I don't think it'll be something that is apart of our dynamic every day, just when I'm/we're in the mood for it. Oh, and I used a kind specifically for ABDL with cute/pretty prints on them which I loved. Almost too pretty to mess in, really.

Edited November 4, 2020 by Teasing Tink

[MissPattch]

Thanks you all for the amazing replies you've all given! I feel a lot more confident now about what might happen that first time. Feel free to keep posting your experiences, cos i'm sure there are others who want to ask this question, but aren't quite brave enough yet <3

[Little kaiya]

I was quite young the first time and felt confusion and some shame. It felt comforting but intellectually it felt weird. Fast forward to the first time I wore for my Daddy and it was just a totally different experience. It was warm, comforting and just all around wonderful.

[jim3]

Honestly, littles in diapers is adorable, I think. But I'm also a DL too.