Daddy vs Dom with Daddy tendencies

[Anna_belle]

I’m not sure if I need a Daddy or a Dom with Daddy tendencies. I feel like there are times where I can be extremely little, then there are times where I’m somewhat little, and then there are times where I’m not little at all. I don’t know what I should be looking or if I should be looking at this point. When I’m in the different spaces I don’t even know what I like/need. If I can have some advise that would be much appreciated.

Thank you!

[Stujw]

Keep looking until ur happy

[Guest Daddydesistyle1]

Ok this is my opinion only —

Daddy is a person who is your mentor, a peron who loves her, cares for her, mentors her success, guides her like the banks of river ( she is free to flow) he educates get when she is sad, down with life and dreams. He spoils her gives her unconditional love and enjoys her bratty ness.

Daddy dom on the other hand is all of that daddy plus will guide her path with what he thinks is right. She becomes a canal then a river now what is the difference well river flows the way she wants but a canal where the water is guided toward the right path it’s much more structured then free flow.

Edited November 1, 2020 by Daddydesistyle1

[Anna_belle]

Ok this is my opinion only —

Daddy is a person who is your mentor, a peron who loves her, cares for her, mentors her success, guides her like the banks of river ( she is free to flow) he educates get when she is sad, down with life and dreams. He spoils her gives her unconditional love and enjoys her bratty ness.

Daddy dom on the other hand is all of that daddy plus will guide her path with what he thinks is right. She becomes a canal then a river now what is the difference well river flows the way she wants but a canal where the water is guided toward the right path it’s much more structured then free flow.

 

What if I feel like I need both? I know I’m a brat at times and that’s when I need the control taken away, but at other times I just wanna be a princess and be spoiled rotten. There are also times where I’m just a sub looking for structure and rules.

[Stujw]

A daddy Dom would be better

[DerbyNerd]

What if I feel like I need both? I know I’m a brat at times and that’s when I need the control taken away, but at other times I just wanna be a princess and be spoiled rotten. There are also times where I’m just a sub looking for structure and rules.

DDLG is inherently part of the kink community so the bulk of daddies will also be doms (or switches) what you're going to be looking for is a daddy who's kinks and ideals align with yours.  

[Anna_belle]

DDLG is inherently part of the kink community so the bulk of daddies will also be doms (or switches) what you're going to be looking for is a daddy who's kinks and ideals align with yours.

 

Ohhhh okie. Thank you, I wasn’t sure.

[Daddyprof]

Here’s the beauty of it: you can have it all. People get hung up with titles. “Dominant” or “daddy” or whatever else. There is room for infinite variety. One of the lovely aspects of ddlg is that it particularly can be suited for flowing from soft to rough, from demanding to loving, from stern to romantic, from taking to giving, and so on. Go enjoy it all!

[Anna_belle]

Here’s the beauty of it: you can have it all. People get hung up with titles. “Dominant” or “daddy” or whatever else. There is room for infinite variety. One of the lovely aspects of ddlg is that it particularly can be suited for flowing from soft to rough, from demanding to loving, from stern to romantic, from taking to giving, and so on. Go enjoy it all!

Thank you for that! That helped!!!!

[Guest UnicornPuff]

A real Daddy will understand that you are not always in Little Space

[Kittykat83]

To be honest I would just find someone who understands you and your needs and who you click with and gives you what you need and vice versa. I wouldn't worry about labels. Yes, searching for someone in the ddlg community will obviously be one of the places to look as the dd's are hopefully more likely to be more compatible than say going through vanilla sites but you can explore and find out about needs organically with someone you click with. Good luck

[Guest ManInTheMoon]

I'm feeling this way atm about being a Daddy Dom. Am I a Soft Dom with Daddy tendencies? Or am I a Daddy with Soft Dom tendencies? When I really take the time to think about it, I think I'm a Soft Dom with Daddy tendencies. But in the end, I'm good either way. I like being who I am and I know who I am when I am and why I am.