LDR sucks

[BabyDaisy81]

I’m scared of storms!! They’re noisy and lightning is scary and because of the LDR thing I have my teddy bear Henry who is Daddy’s ambassador but I need Daddy!!

 

For those of you in LDRs how do you manage this??

[Alaskan Daddy]

as a daddy I have had several LDR littles. There have been a few things that I did to give comfort to my little. I would read her bed time stories, or we would go to sleep together on the phone. If I was not available for either of those things then I would role play with messages such as this: *holds my baby girl very tight and gently rubs he back to keep her safe and loved as she closes her eyes to sleep* I hope this helps you a little bit. I know when you have those feelings they are very real.

[Vampiress]

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Edited December 24, 2020 by Vampiress

[Guest princesslovelace]

Oofieee~LDR's are ok but its too bad you're not in person with the person >.< (I'm in a LDR so I know how you feel)

 

Heres a fun thing you guys can do--- send voice clips to each other. They can be labeled too,like you can do "hear this when you feel scared" or " hear this if you miss my voice" then record a sweet messages. When you listen to each other's recording itll feel like you're with each other ♡

[BabyDaisy81]

@Rose Candy, I might leave him a message and get him to do that for me.. Baby kiss xoxo

[Guest almondy]

we video call like 4 times a week and we talk on the phone a lot. we also message each other almost all the time everyday unless one of us is busy. i hate ldr so i cant wait until everything thats going on right now calms down and i can finally see him because i want to be with him soooooooooooo bad :c

[Kitten&Spice]

I think that there should always be an added effort and more communication with LDRs. It seems like you are always needing to compensate for the time you can’t have with each other. I have found that video chats, photos, and using apps designed for distant relationships to be helpful! However talking is key!

 

I know even small voice messages that are sent are always nice! And they are extremely helpful! I think that there is a lot to make things work it just needs the effort!

[MysticSand]

This will not be feasible for everyone, but my Little and I used to be on call when I was at work and I would just have either an earbud in or the phone just put down and he'd mute his side. It was comforting for him just to be able to hear my side and to know that I was on the other end. If you're able to video call during times when you're especially scared or missing him, just chatting works great to get your mind off of the scaries.