Newbie72 Posted October 22, 2020 Report Posted October 22, 2020 I'm totally new. Met my new daddy.any advice
DerbyNerd Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 Any way you can be more specific on the type of advice you’re looking for? 1
Newbie72 Posted October 23, 2020 Author Report Posted October 23, 2020 Well this my first daddy.he has given me a few rules. We r taking it slow. Told me what a few punishments would be if I was naughty. Any dos and fonts for a newbie
daddymind Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 Tell him to stick his rules up his arse. Only joking. I think in these early stages it's best to sit down with him and talk through both your needs/desires and any hard lines. Get that clear first. As a newbie, you might want to think about this before you talk. Don't rush.
DerbyNerd Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 Well this my first daddy.he has given me a few rules. We r taking it slow. Told me what a few punishments would be if I was naughty. Any dos and fonts for a newbie How long have you known him? Is it an online or IRL relationship? How did you guys meet? Biggest DO is to always look out for yourself and never do something you're not comfortable with just because a daddy told you to. A good daddy will respect when you say no and never ask for more than you are happy/willing to give. Taking it slow is a great idea.
Newbie72 Posted October 23, 2020 Author Report Posted October 23, 2020 I like the rules so far. But they are very specific. Some sexual some just sweet and caring.i like being told what to do. We met for lunch today. So it's an in person relationship. Seeing him again tomorrow.he was very affectionate and caring.he did tell me about spanking punishments if I'm not a good little girl
Newbie72 Posted October 23, 2020 Author Report Posted October 23, 2020 We have both agreed to take it slow
cleebarn Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 Before me and my daddy first met we were talking for about a month. Learning each other likes dislikes and like you have started slowly with rules after we identified my and his needs. Simple ones like wearing sunscreen when I went walking, drinking water etc The list has grown over time as we have learnt about each other. We also discussed punishment what I would be comfotable with and trying , safe words and what after care we would both want. We are always checking in as its surprising how things change. We started with a spanking session so he and I could find out my boundaries and limits as I had never done impact play before. Turns out now I much prefer this to corner time away from him and we redcuded corner time punishment from an hour to 10 mins as I really do struggle with it. Its all about open constant communication on both parts that works really well for us xx
DerbyNerd Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 I like the rules so far. But they are very specific. Some sexual some just sweet and caring.i like being told what to do. We met for lunch today. So it's an in person relationship. Seeing him again tomorrow.he was very affectionate and caring.he did tell me about spanking punishments if I'm not a good little girlAre you saying that you only met in person for the first time today? How long since you have known him? I’d just advise to not throw yourself in too fast. If you’ve only met for the first time today then for me that would be too soon for rules and anything sexual. 1
Newbie72 Posted October 23, 2020 Author Report Posted October 23, 2020 We were texting for a couple of weeks. We are both older late 40s. He is new to it too. We are just experimenting and see what works. But we are very much into each other. One of the rules is I can't touch myself without daddy's permission which I think is totally hot. Punishment would be a spanking which I have to say turns me on a little. Never done it. He is very loving and caring so we are just taking it slow. It's just talk right now. It's all very exciting
DuskZA Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 We have both agreed to take it slow Go even slower
Daddyisgreat Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 Yes I agree with the the gentleman take it really slow you want to make sure everything is perfect for both of you I have a little that's trying to embrace her bratty side but does want to be a brat she wants to be my little princess so take it slow
MysticSand Posted October 23, 2020 Report Posted October 23, 2020 Since you've already been texting a few weeks, I think you've already done this but one major DO for any relationship is to be friends first so that you have a foundation and common interests to fall back on. The CGL dynamic is great but there's so much more to people than just titles so make sure you match on a whole bunch of levels outside of CGL. DON'T compromise. I mean this in terms of your own safety, life goals, moral values, etc. As someone above said, if something makes you uncomfortable, go with your gut and talk things out. 1
Newbie72 Posted October 24, 2020 Author Report Posted October 24, 2020 Thank you everyone for being super helpful.really appreciate it
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