Spoiling your little

[CuddlyDaddy]

Hi everybody. Is it wrong to spoil your little?

 

Also I have a little problem on discipline, my little doesn't like it, so I find other ways to take care of a problem by talking it out.

 

Am I doing something wrong, because I feel like I'm failing as a DD.

[CuddlyDaddy]

Thank you for the insight!

[PapaCoba]

If I couldn't spoil a little, then why even bother? I might as well just pack it in if that were the case.

[The Perennial Princess]

I think it really depends upon the relationship, the individuals involved, and said individuals definition of 'spoiling'. My papa views it as his duty to spoil me because I am a baby and because I had a unique life before meeting him.... He derives pleasure from my happiness as I likewise derive pleasure from his. I love to be spoiled but I love to spoil my papa in turn. I don't think a papa can ever provide his baby with too much spoiling in terms of love, attention, and care. Of course, a little can never spoil a papa either in those same capacities. An abundance of the aforementioned is a hallmark of DDLG for me. Materialistically, there just needs to be balance and respect. I know my papa bear doesn't like to say no, so, I would never ask for anything unreasonable but little gifts here and there can go a long way.

 

It doesn't have to be anything extravagant...but it's nice to have a daily reminder that you matter. Gifts don't have to be bought either....Perhaps my papa took me to a nice restaurant for dinner so the next day, I want to write him a little poem or I want to make him his favorite chocolate chip cookies for dessert to show him that I value him just as much. Big or little, we must make daily spoiling efforts (that are within our means) to show our loved one that we care.....

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Not all relationships like this have discipline or punishment. Do you need to discipline her for yourself, or for her benefit? Have to talked to her about it? Is it behaviour that is causing any issues or problems?

And there is nothing at all wrong with spoiling your little girl. We usually love that. But not with money. I feel most spoilt when my daddy spends time with me, cuddles me for a long time, talks to me, praises me and shows appreciation for all I try do for him. He does treat me to meals out and stuff, which of course is wonderful, but nothing like as wonderful as my time with him.

[Guest Mr TwitchPool]

Agreeing with the above, buy everyone's views on spoiling are different,  Also depending on the little's past.  Spoiling can be love and affection or gifts a plenty.  Part of my nature is to genuinely enjoy making my little happy, so that may mean a gift but it always means lots of love.

 

Now Discipline on the other hand,  seriously depends on what they are doing that requires discipline, may have nothing to do with you and they could be bratty, or could have everything to do with you.

 

Either way it entirely depends on your own unique set up.

 

If you want to give us more info we maybe able to help in more detail 

[BH_Bambi]

We set up my sticker chart for this! I have an odd relationship with gifts and treats - I don't like them unless I know there's a reason behind them or I've earned them. So yes I love love love to be given little presents and things, but only if you can tell me why. Did I behave really well? Is it because you missed date night? That sort of thing.

Also I get grumpy if Daddy insists on paying everything when we go for a meal or day out. Even though I'm a poor student and can barely afford to cover my half, I still insist on doing so. Sometimes he lets me...

[Guest PrincessPJ]

Problem spoiling your little?!?! Who as a little doesn't want to be spoiled? That's one of the best things about all of this. I wish I was spoiled more....even a little!