DDLB

[Kitten&Spice]

Hello everyone! I was curious if there was anyone who is in a DDLB relationship or rather others who are considered Little boys and searching for a Daddy or vise versa! I myself am a trans little boy and I find that it is hard to find other littles who are also outside the little girl spectrum. I am sure there are a few but there isn’t much representation out there!

 

I would love to know if your little space looks different and how you are as a little! Or basically anything else that you would love to share! Thanks!

[Little kaiya]

I'm genderfluid as an adult and as a little. As a result sometimes Daddy has a little girl, sometimes a little boy and most often I just flow naturally between the two.

[Kitten&Spice]

I'm genderfluid as an adult and as a little. As a result sometimes Daddy has a little girl, sometimes a little boy and most often I just flow naturally between the two.

Ohh that is cool! Does your little space differ based on that? Like your interest, what you wear, the age range, things like that? Or is it the same just with different names?! Also do you tell him which headspace you are in or is there something you do to show that you are a little boy or little girl?

[Little kaiya]

I don't have a specific age but seem to range between a out 2 to 6 whether as a boy or a girl. There aren't so much differences in what I'm interested in but more in how I tend to express myself. As a little boy I tend to be a bit more shy and clingy whereas when im a little girl I tend to be more vocal, independent and like to explore.

 

Name wise they are the same names when im little and when I'm adult. He has almost 3 years of telling when I'm a man or a woman and when im a little boy or girl so I rarely have to tell Him. There are certain, gestures, behaviours and verbal cues that He uses to tell my gender at any given time.

[lil_moon]

I'm a trans little boy too and I'm in relationship with a Daddy 

[Bearly]

I come from the babyfur community and the vast majority of littles there are little boys, so don't feel too alone!

[Kitten&Spice]

I come from the babyfur community and the vast majority of littles there are little boys, so don't feel too alone!

Oh I had no idea that this was even a thing! That is really cool! Thank you for sharing!

Edited October 17, 2020 by CatboyAdrian

[Little kaiya]

[MysticSand]

I come from the babyfur community and the vast majority of littles there are little boys, so don't feel too alone!

This sounds like the cutest thing ever. Babyfur community. *-*

 

Sorry OP, just here to comment about babyfur. ^^;

[Bearly]

This sounds like the cutest thing ever. Babyfur community. *-*

 

Sorry OP, just here to comment about babyfur. ^^;

It is really hecking cute, like an expanded universe of baby Looney Tunes characters.

[evilday]

Fellow trans ddlb boy here, although I am a middle. I do enjoy the dolls and coloring, but I also love riding on razor scooters, watching Game Grumps like constantly lol, gaming, card games like yugioh and mtg, etc. Being male and a middle definitely colors my middle space in different ways. I transitioned physically 6 ish years ago and that caused a huge, abrupt shift in how I acted out my middle space although I will never stop loving dolls and cute pink things. I have an amazing unicorn onesie my last daddy gave me that I wear out all the time. In a way, transition really helped me be more authentic and I find myself being middle in romantic relationships now much more confidently than pre-transition. I feel so much more seen with my partners and it’s been such a wonderful experience to watch my middle space open up like that.

[Bubbles_and_Feathers]

Also a trans little boy! I'm not currently in a DDLB relationship- my girlfriend is a middle.

 

Sometimes I like to be a strong grownup man and look after my gf, but mostly I'm a quiet and sleepy baby, lol. Cuddling, naptime, and stuffies are my favorite things.

[AboutABoy]

Hi I'm LB/middle. I've noticed that there aren't many Daddy's into having a Prince...(or maybe I'm just looking in all the wrong places!)

 

I do find that the DDlg does overshadow DDlb by quite a lot. I also wonder if it puts potential LBs off? :/

[Little kaiya]

I think it's really a matter of where you look. As someone who is genderfluid my Daddy has both a little girl and little boy in me. We've actually come across a number of Daddies looking for little boys and complaining that they're very hard to find.

[Kitten&Spice]

Hi I'm LB/middle. I've noticed that there aren't many Daddy's into having a Prince...(or maybe I'm just looking in all the wrong places!)

 

I do find that the DDlg does overshadow DDlb by quite a lot. I also wonder if it puts potential LBs off? :/

I agree that it can be quite difficult! Especially since most forums are mainly DDlg involved! I would love to find a forum that had more representation but I also think that this forum is the best one I have found for support! I am sure there is a daddy dom out there but it takes time!

[LittlePupRune]

I’m a lb myself! Also a transmasc person. I’m technically a switch and have been a daddy to a boy previously. I too wish there was more cg/l and ddlb representation instead of the hyper focus on ddlg.

 

My little space is fairly calm and quiet, a little independent, but mostly just wanting cuddles.

[OrangeJellyBean]

Howdy!

Trans non-binary jelly bean here! I've only been socially out as trans for a little over a year now and I've noticed something big in my little space. I don't feel as stuck in a "princess mold" and that's helped me not be so shy. If that makes any sense lol. It's not intentional but in communities like this sometimes there is a hard gender line. Example; glitter, pink, rainbows, tutus, kittens or the little girls and dinos, bugs, green, puppies for the boys. I'm not saying everyone falls into those groups but (again unintentional) this comes up. For me, shedding off that mold and being the curious little guy I am helped me not feel shy about my interest. That confidence flowed into my "big" life too. 

Some Little Boys might be afraid of having to fit that cute pink mold so they shy away from the community. Which flippin sucks. 

I hope that made a lick of sense. 

[LittlePupRune]

Another thought as to why there isn't as much ddlb representation in cgl and this community is because the gay men's community has a tendency to keep to themselves, and they tend to have their own styles of relationships (which includes a Daddy/boy style), especially in the bdsm/leather gay men's community.

[Guest BubblesLovesDisney]

Another thought as to why there isn't as much ddlb representation in cgl and this community is because the gay men's community has a tendency to keep to themselves, and they tend to have their own styles of relationships (which includes a Daddy/boy style), especially in the bdsm/leather gay men's community.

I think you're right about this. I'm part of a "gay men's" community in my local area and it's my experience that most of us keep to ourselves, especially with BDSM/leather and certain dynamics. Even I myself lived like that for a long time, I've mostly moved away from it as I'm Pansexual and open to more than just homosexual relationships.