I want to be a little and a caregiver- is reciprocal CG/L a thing?

[pastelfaerie (gay little)]

Hi everyone! I’m new to the forum. As you can see in my username, I am a lesbian (so not ddlg), but I joined this website so I could be a part of the little community, hope that’s okay!! <3

 

Anyway, I couldn’t find anything about this online, but does anyone do reciprocal CG/L or find themselves wanting to be both a caregiver and a little (not at the same time)? Sometimes I want to be babied, but since I’m a very protective/caring person I often feel maternal towards my girlfriend and want to care for her. It makes me so happy to do things like make her a meal, comfort her when she’s sad, make her bed, and give her presents! I love performing caring actions and calling her baby, but also.... I’m baby!!

 

Please tell me what you think about this. I haven’t explicitly talked about it with my girlfriend but she knows how much I like to call her baby and how much I like being her “baby” uwu

 

Anyone else feel like this??

[Guest Prat]

It's called switching and it's perfectly natural and if you're a lesbian then it's MDlg (Mommy - little), although you can call yourself Daddy too, it's really up for personal preference.

[littlekami]

Yess! I'm a switch and a little. Your experience as you described it resonates with me a lot

While I'm in little space I like caring for others too, but I can easily switch into a more mature CG role. I really love it! 
I recently met someone that I switch with like that and it's the first time for me. It feels so right to be little but not necessarily submissive all the time. 

 

Thanks for sharing! 

Edited October 8, 2020 by littlekami

[Bearly]

Switching is not uncommon, don't worry. Also this forum encompasses CG/L, not just DD/LG specifically. DDLG is just a more iconic term

[ScarletBaby]

As everyone else already said it's a lot more common than you think. My BFF is a switch, she doesn't know what subset of BDSM or alt lifestyles but she definately identifies as a switch. I've heard on couples switching together and sometimes being Little together when the mood strikes. If you go through enough of TikTok then you'll find such couples sharing their stories and explaining how wonderful of a relationship it can be. I can imagine how nice it would be to be very reciprocating in a relationship for caring for and being cared for. As a Little, I still want to care for my cg (when I get a new one) in my own way even while being Little. I'm sure you and your girlfriend will find your rhythm for it if you haven't already, but for now you can at least know that you aaren't alone in your desires as a Switch.

[Kitten&Spice]

It is hard to add on to what everyone else has said! But I have found that I have a very small part of me that is a more caregiver type! However it only becomes present when I am either around people who need some support or I will also help other littles who need a little taking care of for a small time. I also love to just spoil people and wouldn’t mind being with a more dominant switch! However I do prefer to be the submissive and be little more then I do as a caregiver!