Can I get some help?

[Critter95]

Hi, I'm new to the Dd/lg community and I have some questions, I would really appreciate it if someone could help me.

1. I've been interested in the community for a while, but I don't know if it's just the love and affection I see that makes me interested accompanied by some of the sexual stuff, because I know I'm not into the childlike behavior(paci's, diapers, dressing in child clothing. That being said I'm not a total adult either, I love my few stuffed animals and have every Disney movie I could find on VHS, I also color on occasion to relax.) so I guess my question is how did you know you were a Little? And another would be do I classify as a Little?

I would also like to know if the relationship could also be like a boyfriend/girlfriend thing, I know some Dom/Sub relationships don't get into the whole romance thing, but I'm a romantic and would prefer love and future mixed in with it, and I don't know how to phrase that into a proper question.

Any help/advice you could provide would be amazing!

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

Hi there. Welcome to the community!

 

How did you know you were a little? I knew I was a little because of my child-like personality. I've always loved stuffies and cute, adorable things. I like to be looked after and taken care of. I knew that I've always needed/wanted guidance from my partner.

 

Do I classify as a little? Yes, of course you do! There are a lot of varying factors that contribute to being a little but there isn't a specific guideline. Don't stress too much on whether or not you fit the stereotypical "mold" of a little. If you feel little, then you ARE little.

 

The dynamic is different for everyone. In my case, my Daddy is my boyfriend. In other cases, some littles have Caregivers that are strictly platonic. Take what you like from the dynamic and make it your own

[Critter95]

Thank you:)

And thank you for the answers, they helped quite a bit!

[tphoto24]

Hey welcome to the site I would be glad to talk to you and see if we can figure out what you really wanting and etc.  

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

My daddy is the love of my life. We do all the usual relationship stuff, but the daddy/little girl aspect is just part of who we are together.

I am his submissive, his little girl, his "girlfriend ", his lover, his partner, his friend etc. We plan on getting married in time, and me and my youngest son are moving in to his house in around July time.

I knew I needed a sexually dominant man, that was all I recognised in myself at the time all this self discovery really began several months ago. Then I joined fetlife to explore and have a place to express that part of myself anonymously. I very quickly realised it was a lot more complex than that to me. I soon realised I needed a daddy.Dom.

After a couple of months he found me and we are truly perfect together.

We do not age play, I do not do the baby talk, or wear nappies, or suck dummies etc. I love disney (but seriously who doesn't?), I occasionally use my adult colouring book, my language can get quite cute and softer than usual, but I'm a 44 year old woman at all times.

We are all different. Our little sides come out in a variety of ways. What works for one does mot work for another.

[Critter95]

My daddy is the love of my life. We do all the usual relationship stuff, but the daddy/little girl aspect is just part of who we are together.

I am his submissive, his little girl, his "girlfriend ", his lover, his partner, his friend etc. We plan on getting married in time, and me and my youngest son are moving in to his house in around July time.

I knew I needed a sexually dominant man, that was all I recognised in myself at the time all this self discovery really began several months ago. Then I joined fetlife to explore and have a place to express that part of myself anonymously. I very quickly realised it was a lot more complex than that to me. I soon realised I needed a daddy.Dom.

After a couple of months he found me and we are truly perfect together.

We do not age play, I do not do the baby talk, or wear nappies, or suck dummies etc. I love disney (but seriously who doesn't?), I occasionally use my adult colouring book, my language can get quite cute and softer than usual, but I'm a 44 year old woman at all times.

We are all different. Our little sides come out in a variety of ways. What works for one does mot work for another.

 

Thank you, that sounds a lot like me, and helps quite a bit

[Guest Thejackkeaton]

Welcome! Lovely place here. Wonderful people. Truly. ^^

 

This may sound generic, but it's genuine, and I mean it. Don't let anything or anyone define you, or what you like and need. Other than your own preference.

 

If you feel you're a little, you're a little. You might not be like an other little. And you might not be like any other little. That's okay.

 

If there's anything people in the lifestyle should understand, it's that you define what love, A relationship and sex mean to you.

 

So be whatever you want to be. Be happy, most of all.

 

And love your stuffies. They are the friggin' best!

[Critter95]

Welcome! Lovely place here. Wonderful people. Truly. ^^

 

This may sound generic, but it's genuine, and I mean it. Don't let anything or anyone define you, or what you like and need. Other than your own preference.

 

If you feel you're a little, you're a little. You might not be like an other little. And you might not be like any other little. That's okay.

 

If there's anything people in the lifestyle should understand, it's that you define what love, A relationship and sex mean to you.

 

So be whatever you want to be. Be happy, most of all.

 

And love your stuffies. They are the friggin' best!

 

Thank you!

I do most definitely love my stuffies!