Activities/things to do in LDRs?

[Melly01]

Hi everyone! 

 

I have been talking to a really sweet daddy for a little while now. Nothing is set in stone yet, but I will most likely start a purely LDR with him (I'm really excited about this actually ). The only thing I'm having a little trouble with is finding activities for us to do. Since we are both pretty reserved people when it comes to our private lives, I was wondering if any of you have any ideas for activities we could do without needing to use Skype or calling. 

 

Thank you very much! I can't wait to read your replies and if you have any questions I will gladly answer them.  

 

Kind regards, 

Melly 

[Guest Dandy Blob]

Watch shows/movies at the same time together. You can use apps (like Discord I think) to stream a show for another person if you don't both have the streaming service.

 

Find some games to play together? Even little phone games (bf and I played A LOT of Draw Together & Words with Friends while I was in the hospital & isolated, it was fun!), it can be a fun thing to talk/text about sometimes or just something that you do together while apart.

 

You can send each other pictures during the day of what you are both up to, like showing him pictures of your colouring or something. Or even just of your meals, it's a simple way to feel connected to the other person.

 

If you are both okay with it, you can send care packages to each other every now & then! Doesn't have to be big or expensive things, just could be some little notes or something at the dollar store that reminded you of them...etc. Maybe a craft that you made for them, who knows!

[Dino-Daddy]

Games indeed are perfect or watch shows/series/movies together.
With videocalling nowadays even play hide the stuffie.. ( hide a stuffie in a room in the view of a cam ) is totaly fun
Read storys by voice ..

Have a video teaparty..

 

etc etc , so many things to do specialy with the interaction of the interwebs whicch ca help convert "regular" things to online activities

Edited September 9, 2020 by Dino-Daddy