How to be little with no Daddy?

[littleapplejack]

 Hey fellow littles with no Daddies/Caregivers! I have a question- how you guys deal with not having daddy/caregiver?.

 

when i introduced my boyfriend of year and a half  to my little space and i asked him to accept it as it is he kida well..Just became distant and then we just kinda broke up (i am still not sure what our relationship is). He thought my little things are kind of weird -he only was ok with me likening my little pony (watchign it on netflix) and coloring in coloring book (but he never took a look at my drawings or what a great job i did). Once i bought a paci for myself and he said its weird- i got scared a pretty much never brought up any "little" items to our environment or even talked about little space. when i msg him or call him he gets mad and calls me clingy....anyway long story short he became very distant and now i feel so lonely because its hard being little with no daddy.

 

My parents never allowed me to have a childhood and always told me that i need to grow the f*ck up and now my boyfriend says the same thing that really hurts. its not like i can switch and be regular human-being little makes me treasure everything good and positive that i have in my soul- i dont want to give it away ot give it up.i cant really stand neglect anymore but it really scares me to have absolutely no one by my side because i don’t really have any friends and i moved to country where i currently live just 5 years ago. i don’t know anyone here and it just feels super lonely.

 

So my question is : How to be little with no daddy?

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

Are you looking for a daddy? Cause maybe I could be of service

This response is irrelevant to the topic.

 

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To answer your question: I have to agree with Tori! You can set a specific time of day to be little- coloring, playing with dolls, cuddles with stuffies, put on little clothes, watch cartoons, eat yummy foods. If you're up for going to local munches and meeting other littles, I think that would make it easier for you

[BH_Bambi]

There are lots of hidden ways to self care and relax into littlespace! 

Things like exploring our forums here and interacting in chat, finding online games that appeal to your littlespace, sucking your thumb or paci secretly before bed, wearing cute accessories with a more 'grown up' outfit, juice, finger foods...so much!

Looking after yourself is always key. Being little is a part of your personality that shouldn't change because of the people around you. You do you! ^.^

[Elegant-Kitten]

Agreed. I've spent more time being little without a dom/daddy than with one. There are perks (No bedtime rules ) and of course I feel like you get to know yourself and your needs better on your own rather than having an influence of a caregiver. 

 

You can still do all the things you love like coloring, snuggling with your paci/blankie/stuffy, you can make yourself meals that appeal to your little side (Chicken nuggets, happy meals, or things you loved as a child), baby yourself with a bubble bath on the occasion. And by all means should you never "Grow the f up" if you don't want to. Being little can be a great escape and place to recoup after spending all day being a grown up and handling responsibilities. It can be your reward to yourself for dealing with the nonsense and stress grown up life throws at you. 

 

Hang in there :3 

[marshmallow]

thankyou so much for thus feed! i gots the lonely little bug too :b other little friends sounds very fun too!